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Utah parents navigating divorce, separation, or parentage disputes often find themselves overwhelmed by custody laws and confused by inconsistent court practices. This article explains how custody is determined, what can and can’t be changed, and how it affects parent-time and child support under current Utah law—particularly as governed by Utah Code Title 81, Chapter 9.
Custody in Utah is determined by the child’s best interest—not by outdated gender roles or assumptions. The statutory factors guiding this determination are found in Utah Code §§ 81-9-201 through 209. These include (but are not limited to):
Courts are, in principle, prohibited from favoring one parent over the other based on gender. However, as many Utah professionals and litigants observe, bias all kinds of bias still surface in practice, especially in high-conflict cases or when commissioners, judges, and expert witnesses interject their own assumptions and personal opinions into custody evaluations.
Children’s desires about where they want to live or how often they see each parent are considered, especially once they reach their mid-teens. But these preferences don’t control the outcome—nor should they.
Under Utah law, a child’s preference must be weighed against all other statutory factors and evaluated for maturity and sincerity. Courts often consult with custody evaluators or guardians ad litem (GALs) to assess the child’s views—but in my experience, GALs and custody evaluators do more to relieve the court of responsibility for conducting its own analysis and making its own decisions than they enhance a custody award in the children’s best interest. Strangely, courts rarely (if ever) hear from the children themselves. The result? A system that claims to consider children’s voices but too often filters or ignores them entirely.
There is no legal presumption in Utah for equal (50/50) custody. However, the idea that shared physical custody benefits children—when both parents are fit—is gaining traction in Utah courts. Some judges, influenced by growing legislative and social support, are more willing to award joint and equal physical custody than in years past.
Still, joint or equal custody does not always mean true parity. Courts can award joint legal custody and still give one parent “final decision-making” power or designate one home as the child’s primary residence. And joint or 50/50 custody requires genuine cooperation between parents—a dynamic that not all post-divorce families can sustain. In Utah, joint physical custody is defined by statute in the Utah Code Title 81, Chapter 9 (Custody, Parent-time, and Visitation)—specifically in 81-9-101(6):
“Joint physical custody” means the child stays with each parent overnight for more than 30% of the year, and both parents contribute to the expenses of the child in addition to paying child support.
Parents who want joint or 50/50 custody should come to court prepared with a realistic plan showing how they will manage school, extracurriculars, health care, and communication. Courts want to see structure and good faith—not just slogans about “equal rights.”
Few issues in family law are more damaging—or more inconsistently addressed—than parental interference, alienation, and false allegations. Some parents deliberately sabotage the other’s relationship with the children, manipulate facts, or make unsubstantiated claims of abuse or unfitness. These tactics not only harm the children but distort the court’s view of what is truly in the child’s best interest. Utah law allows courts to impose consequences for interference, including contempt sanctions or even changes to custody (§ 81-9-211). But the law is only as strong as the judge’s willingness to enforce it. Many parents find that courts are slow to act—if they act at all. If you’re facing alienation or false accusations, act quickly and gather evidence. Passive hope that the truth will prevail is not enough.
Utah calculates child support using statutory guidelines that are directly tied to the number of overnights a child spends with each parent. This means that even modest changes in the physical custody schedule can significantly alter the support calculation.
For example, a shift from 60/40 custody to a true 50/50 schedule may reduce the child support obligation of one parent—or eliminate it entirely. But courts will only adjust support if the change in custody is legally recognized through an updated order. Informal agreements won’t count.
To prepare and present a winning argument for the legal and physical custody arrangement you seek in a Utah divorce case, you must anchor your position in the statutory best-interest factors found in Title 81 (Utah Domestic Relations Code), Chapter 9 (Custody, Parent-time, and Visitation), Part 2 (Custody and Parent-time Between Parents) and related provisions.
Begin by demonstrating that you are not only willing but able to meet your child’s physical, emotional, educational, and developmental needs. This includes presenting evidence of your consistent caregiving history, your ability to foster a stable home environment, and your support of the child’s relationship with the other parent—unless there are legitimate concerns about the other parent’s parental fitness. Judges look (or at least should look) for credible, fact-based presentations—not vague generalities—so documentation and testimony should be as specific and measurable as possible (e.g., school drop-offs, medical appointments, involvement in extracurriculars, and quality of parent-child interactions). Objective, independently verifiable proof is always better than “my word against yours.”
Anticipate the court’s scrutiny of your co-parenting abilities and your willingness to communicate and cooperate in legal custody decisions. If you’re seeking sole legal or physical custody, be ready to show that joint legal or physical custody would be unworkable and/or contrary to the child’s best interests due to persistent conflict, refusal to cooperate, or danger to the child. Present a clear parenting plan that accommodates the needs and schedule of both the children and co-parent, not just your own. Credibility and reasonableness carry weight—parents who show they are focused on their child’s welfare, rather than their own self-interest or punishing the other parent, tend to be more persuasive. If custody evaluators or GALs are involved (they are overused in Utah, so don’t be surprised if one or both are proposed), ensure they are competent and impartial, and that they are provided with accurate and complete information early and updated as necessary. Be prepared to respectfully challenge flawed or biased recommendations with your own evidence and expert testimony if necessary.
Black and white, plain and simple. We really mean that here at Utah Family Law, LC. What you normally hear about divorce and family law is all over the map–even when you hear it from lawyers.
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