This is not a good question for Quora. Better for you to consult with an attorney in the jurisdiction where you reside with your husband. It’s worth the money for about an hour-long consultation with a knowledgeable, experienced, and honest attorney. Do it. Don’t pinch pennies to stay ignorant about this subject. It’s nothing like what you think.
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