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My Wife Is Divorcing Me Because I Am Not Rich Enough. She Said It Will Take Me Years to Make Her Feel Financially Secure. I Was There for Her When She Had Mental Breakdowns. What Should I Do?

If your wife really is divorcing you, and not merely threatening to divorce you, because 1) you are not rich enough to suit her, and 2) you are not a lazy bum and you are doing your best to support her financially as a spouse, then rejoice–good riddance to bad rubbish. Cut your losses now. You will be better off without her. I know you may think “I’ll never find someone as wonderful as she is again,” but a woman who would divorce you for not being rich enough is a woman who does not love you, who will not be the support you need and deserve, and who will only be a burden and a detriment to you and your children (if and when they would come along).

If your wife is not really divorcing you, but is threatening to divorce you, and claiming it is because 1) you are not rich enough to suit her, and 2) you are not a lazy bum and you are doing your best to support her financially as a spouse, then you should ask yourself the following questions:

  1. Is she really that shallow? Or is the “you’re not rich enough” perhaps a pretext for other feelings and concerns of hers? You mentioned that you were there for her mental breakdowns–is the “your not rich enough” symptomatic of a mental or emotional disorder?
  2. Is this perhaps a matter of youthful inexperience and naivete? A lack of maturity?
  3. Did she grow up rich and doesn’t understand that it’s not the norm?
  4. Did she grow up poor and goes through life terrified of staying poor?
  5. Is she deluded?

If her “I’m going to divorce you because you’re not rich” is not really what she’s thinking of feeling, it’s worth talking with her and with a minister and/or someone whose lifestyle you both wish to emulate and find out what’s realistic and what’s not, what’s achievable and what’s not. If your wife can’t accept reality, then see my answer above. It’s tragic that she would chuck a good man just because he’s not rich enough, but that’s not your problem nor is it a problem you can solve for her.

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