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Can the Mom End up Paying Child Support to the Father if He Was Abusive?

There are so many things wrong with this question. But thank you for asking it because it can be the start of a beneficial conversation and lead to a better understanding of divorce and family law, child custody, and support.…

The Father of My Child Told Me He Can Unilaterally Give Up His Parental Rights. Can He? He Thinks This Way He Will Get Out of Child Support. Can He Do This?

There is more than one question to answer here. First, does a parent have the unilateral power simply to “give up” his or her parental rights (and accompanying obligations)? No. The only way to terminate a parent’s parental rights and obligations…

The Father of My Child Has Visitation Rights Ordered by Court, Yet He Will Be in a Different State During His Visitation Time, but Wants His Aunt to Take Over. Do I Have to Allow His Aunt Visitation While He’s on Vacation?

This is a good question and one that arises frequently in one form or another; a parent either can’t or won’t provide personal care and supervision of the parties’ children his/her scheduled parent-time or custody yet does not want the…

If Parents Are Divorced or Separated, Can the Parent With Full Custody of the Child Prevent the Other Parent From Seeing the Child, Even if That Parent Is Paying Child Support?

February 24, 2023

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Child Care Costs, Child Custody, Child Neglect, Child Support, Child Support Enforcement, Children in Divorce, Parent Time, Parental Rights, Physical Custody, Sole Custody

Child Support, parental rights, sole custody

Unless: there is a statute or court order that permits it; or this kind of statute or court order could be the kind that permits the temporary denial of contact with the child on the grounds that it is necessary…

Is There a Way to Get Legal Action on Child Support for Free?

February 16, 2023

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Attorney Fees, Child Care Costs, Child Support, Child Support Calculation, Divorce Costs, Lawyer Fees, Utah, Utah Code

Child Support, free legal services, inexpensive legal services

Free or inexpensively? Yes, there are ways. Each jurisdiction has different ways of providing these free and/or inexpensive legal services. With rare, if any, exception, these free and/or inexpensive legal services are limited to those who are poor, those who…

How do I convince a family court judge that a narcissistic parent should not have parenting time?

November 18, 2022

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Child Care Costs, Child Custody, Children in Divorce, Co-parenting

children, divorce, Parent Time

So many people believe (and I don’t know how or why they have come to this belief) that “if I can show that the other parent has this flaw, I can prevent that parent from exercising parenting time some of…

What is a Settlement Conference for Child Custody?

October 21, 2022

Divorce Utah

Best Interest of the Child, Child Care Costs

child custody, lawsuit, mediation, settlement conference

While I cannot tell you what is meant by “settlement conference for child custody” in every jurisdiction, I can tell you what it means in the jurisdiction where I practice child custody law (Utah). The term “settlement conference” means a…

Does Utah ORS collect childcare by garnishing a paycheck?

March 11, 2022

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Child Care Costs, Divorce Costs, Finances, ORS (Office of Recovery Services), Utah, Utah Code, Utah Court Rules, Utah Law

child care, child services, Child Support, Office of Recovery Services, ORS, Utah, Utah law

Does the Utah Office of Recovery Services (ORS) collect childcare monthly reimbursement by garnishing a paycheck like it can to collect monthly child support? No. ORS does and cannot collect prospectively monthly child care expenses. Utah Family Law, LC |…

Is it true that family courts get paid from child support payments?

February 23, 2022

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Child Care Costs, Child Support, Child Support Enforcement, Court Orders, Court Rules, Divorce Law, Family Law, Judges, ORS (Office of Recovery Services)

Child Support, child support payment, court, divorce and family law, family court, finances, judges, lawyers, Office of Recovery Services (ORS)

Is it true that family courts get paid from child support payments? Can someone explain it to me or link me to an article that explains it? The courts do not collect child support, they issue orders that and title…

What if a parent sued their child for all the money they spent raising them?

January 28, 2022

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Child Care Costs, Child Care/Surrogate Care, Child Support, Judges, Parent Time, Parental Fitness, Parental Rights, Uncategorized

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What would happen if a parent were to sue a child for every single penny they spent on raising such a child and the judge were to rule in the parent’s favor? You’d likely have an incompetent and/or biased judge. …

T.W. v. S.A. – 2021 UT App 132 – child custody

January 14, 2022

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2021 UT App 132 THE UTAH COURT OF APPEALS T.W., Appellant, v. S.A., Appellee. Opinion No. 20200397-CA Filed November 26, 2021 Third District Court, West Jordan Department The Honorable Dianna Gibson No. 134401457 David Pedrazas, Attorney for Appellant Laja K.…

Can an unemployed alienated parent be forced to help pay for a car for the child?

First, unless there is a statute or court order that requires a parent to purchase a car for a child, or that requires both parents to share the costs of purchasing a car for a child, it’s unlikely that a…

Why is child support still garnishing my friend’s wages and her children are back in her custody?

September 6, 2021

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Child Care Costs, Child Custody, Child Custody Modification, Child Support, Child Support Modification, Children in Divorce, Divorce, Divorce Costs, Family Law, Fathers' Divorce Issues, Men's Divorce Issues, Modification of Child Support, Mothers' Divorce Issues, Women's Divorce Issues

child custody, Child Support, divorce, finances

There could be at least two possible reasons. 1. Even though the child is living with you, if the court and/or the child support collection agency has not been made aware of the change in custody and modified the child…

Why do I pay the child support knowing my kids are living in other countries?

Child support is for the financial support of your children, not a fee (or “ransom”) you pay to keep the children near you. Regardless of where your children live, they still require financial support. Simply living in another country or…

Considering the high cost of child support, does anyone believe that the non-custodial parent is obligated to pay too much for the child’s care? When in a lot of cases where there is split time, one parent is still custodial.

Child support in the jurisdiction where I practice divorce and family law (Utah) is, in my experience and estimation, not too high or too low. I’ll explain (in basic terms) why I see it that way: First, let’s assume a…

Do I pay half of any child care costs my ex incurs? What kinds?

QUESTIONS: Do I pay half of any child care costs my ex incurs? Or just work-related child care costs incurred? Are “occupational training”-related child care costs something I have to share too? And does “occupational training” include a bachelor’s degree?…