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What advice would you give me before divorce, if I’m not in the wrong?

What advice would you give someone before a divorce, if it’s known it may happen and you’re not in the wrong? This is a very important question that too few people ask. Does this sound familiar?: Your spouse is making…

Home Heartbreak: People Divulge the Home Details of Their Divorce

August 18, 2020

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Divorce Causes, Divorce Mistakes, Divorce Preparedness, Marital Home, Marital Property, Men's Divorce Issues, Women's Divorce Issues

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Home Heartbreak: People Divulge the Home Details of Their Divorce (from Porch.com https://porch.com/resource/home-heartbreak) Life is full of transitions. We all remember moving out of our childhood home. For many of us, it was both a thrilling and absolutely terrifying experience.…

Would a child deal better with constantly fighting or divorced parents?

July 9, 2020

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Divorce Causes, Divorce Fears, Divorce Mistakes, Divorce Preparedness

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“Do you think a child would deal better with constantly fighting parents or divorced parents?” I have been asked to answer this question, but as a divorce lawyer (not someone who is divorced himself), I did not want to answer…

Who files for divorce more? Men or Women? Why?

July 8, 2020

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Divorce Causes, Divorce Fears, Divorce Preparedness, Fathers' Divorce Issues, Men's Divorce Issues, Mothers' Divorce Issues, Women's Divorce Issues

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Who files for divorce more? Men or Women? Why? Women file more In the United State of America, although the percentages vary depending on the study, the research is unanimous in finding that wives initiate divorce more often than husbands. Between 65%…

Why is it so common for parents to become outright enemies after divorce?

Why is it so common for parents to become outright enemies after a divorce? I have represented people in divorce who were pure as the driven snow, innocent as lambs, and treated miserably by their spouses, by law enforcement, by…

Will there be more divorces or more babies after the coronavirus is over?

April 6, 2020

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Divorce Causes, Divorce Preparedness

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Will there be more divorces or more babies after the coronavirus is over? Both. Why more babies will be born than normal. Whenever two people of the opposite sex are forced to remain isolated together for long periods of time,…

Should I be nice to my spouse during a divorce?

That depends on what you mean by “nice”. Do you mean “with kindness”? Not necessarily kindness, but certainly decency. You are morally obligated to treat your spouse with decency, but you don’t have to go out of your way to…

If your parents are divorced, what are the chances you will be?

Much, much higher than if your parents had not divorced. See Psychology Today February 5, 2019: “Research shows that children of divorce are more likely to experience a divorce themselves. The statistics vary, but one study by researchers Paul Amato and Danelle…

Can you divorce your spouse even if your spouse does want a divorce?

Yes. This is what is known as “no fault divorce”. Every state in the U.S. has no fault divorce laws. Many people believe that “no fault” divorce means that one cannot get divorced without being at fault. No, it means…

What are the most common reasons for divorce in 2019?

September 30, 2019

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Divorce Causes

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‘Same as they were in 2018 and for the last 40+ years or so, ever since the first no-fault divorce law was passed. Utah Family Law, LC | divorceutah.com | 801-466-9277 https://www.quora.com/What-are-the-most-common-reasons-for-divorce-in-2019/answer/Eric-Johnson-311

Does anyone secretly want a divorce?

Of course. Tens of thousands. Many of such people do not go through with divorce for various reasons. Some include: Fear of retaliation (whether in the form of physical, emotional, and/or financial abuse or hardship) Fear of being left financially…

What happens if marriage is abolished, since there are too many divorce rates and cheating affairs?

June 20, 2019

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Adultery, Children in Divorce, Divorce Causes, Divorce Costs, Divorce Prevention/Marriage Preservation

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If that happens, then we will then have taken another step—and a big one—on the road to hell. Although the old joke, “the leading cause of divorce is marriage” may be humorous, it’s terrible logic. Abolishing marriage would not “solve”…

What are some of the major causes behind a divorce?

April 19, 2019

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Adultery, Divorce Causes

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Lack of commitment/incompatibility. http://www.divorce.usu.edu/files… Survey: Certified Divorce Financial Analyst® (CDFA®) professionals Reveal the Leading Causes of Divorce “Marriage is a counter-cultural act in a throwaway society.” —Dr. William H. Doherty, noted marriage scholar and therapist Utah Family Law, LC |…

Is financial turmoil the cause of divorce?

April 18, 2019

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Divorce Causes, Divorce Prevention/Marriage Preservation, Men's Divorce Issues, Women's Divorce Issues

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Probably not. While many divorces arise over money troubles (too little money, which places an unbearable strain on the marriage), money can’t be the primary cause of divorce. Divorce is too often a terrible investment. The odds of “cashing in” through divorce…