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How can I talk to a lawyer when I don’t have money to pay for one?

September 21, 2020

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How can I talk to a lawyer when I don’t have money to pay for one? Most jurisdictions have resources for consulting an attorney, even receiving certain kinds of legal services, without charge. In Utah, for example, the Utah State…

Can I get a cost-free divorce if, say, my spouse is verbally and emotionally abusive?

September 15, 2020

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Abuse, Attorney Fees, Divorce Costs, Divorce Fears, Divorce Law, Divorce Lawyers, Divorce Mistakes, Divorce Preparedness, Emotional abuse, Men's Divorce Issues, Women's Divorce Issues

Can I get a cost-free divorce if, say, my spouse is verbally and emotionally abusive? In a sense, yes, but not because of a finding that your spouse “verbally and emotionally abused” your and (usually) only if: the court waives…

Are all lawyers super poor?

July 21, 2020

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Are all lawyers super poor? No, but lawyers aren’t as rich as popular culture believes. I think I can speak for all lawyers when I tell you that one thing almost all of us resent is when people come to…

If we agree on our divorce terms, do we need attorneys?

July 10, 2020

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If we agree on our divorce terms, do we need attorneys? In a less complicated divorce, where each party has already agreed to the split of assets, do they each need to hire their own attorney, and why or why…

How much are the typical fees for a divorce?

June 30, 2020

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How much are the typical fees for a divorce? According to lawyers.com, as reported June 18, 2019, the average cost of a divorce in my jurisdiction where I practice divorce law (Utah) is $13,200. This is based upon an average…

Putting my money where my mouth is: I now offer half-day mediation services free of charge. No strings attached.

June 4, 2020

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Putting my money where my mouth is: I now offer half-day mediation services free of charge. No strings attached. Divorce litigation almost always costs too much. Divorce mediation is now getting out of control too. I cannot offer unlimited…

How can we change the court system in order to make divorces easier on the children?

How can we change the court system in order to make divorces easier on the children? In my opinion: Institute a “loser pays the prevailing party’s attorney’s fees” rule. make divorce cases more litigant focused and tailored to meeting their needs…

Do I have a chance in divorce court without a lawyer? Do I really need one?

A chance? Sure. You have a chance. And you have a chance of winning the lottery, just not a very good chance of it. You may not want to read the rest of my answer because I am a lawyer,…

Why is it so common for parents to become outright enemies after divorce?

Why is it so common for parents to become outright enemies after a divorce? I have represented people in divorce who were pure as the driven snow, innocent as lambs, and treated miserably by their spouses, by law enforcement, by…

What are some reasons for offering pro bono legal services?

March 24, 2020

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Attorney Fees, Divorce Attorneys, Divorce Costs, Divorce Lawyers, Divorce Mistakes, Divorce Preparedness

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While I provide some pro bono assistance (but not exclusively), I don’t like providing most kinds of pro bono legal services. I know I’m not alone in feeling this way. Candidly, most pro bono clients in my experience ranked among…

Who is responsible for debt when you get a divorce or if you break up?

Who is responsible for debt when you get a divorce or if you break up? For the jurisdiction where I practice law (Utah), the law governing who can be made responsible for the payment of marital debts in divorce is very…

Should I be nice to my spouse during a divorce?

That depends on what you mean by “nice”. Do you mean “with kindness”? Not necessarily kindness, but certainly decency. You are morally obligated to treat your spouse with decency, but you don’t have to go out of your way to…

Must I engage in all-day divorce mediation or some other time period?

Must I engage in all-day mediation in my divorce action, or for some other specific time period? No, there is no mandatory minimum period of time you must spend in mediation. You don’t have to stay in all-day mediation or…

Is a divorce easier when you’re both poor?

February 19, 2020

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Usually. When there’s nothing worth fighting over then it makes sense to make a fair deal or just walk away, rather than throwing good money after bad fighting over things that are worth less than the cost of your legal…

If your parents are divorced, what are the chances you will be?

Much, much higher than if your parents had not divorced. See Psychology Today February 5, 2019: “Research shows that children of divorce are more likely to experience a divorce themselves. The statistics vary, but one study by researchers Paul Amato and Danelle…

Can I protect marital assets from my spouse by “temporarily gifting” them?

November 15, 2019

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Can I protect marital assets from my spouse by “temporarily gifting” assets to somebody else until after the divorce is final? Can you? Like is it doable? Sure, you can do it. And many divorcing people do this very thing successfully (meaning they get…

Why are divorce papers so long?

November 3, 2019

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While it is true that some lawyers write up needlessly long divorce documents just to pad their bills, even the most efficient and honest lawyers often find themselves having to draft (write) documents that are longer than most people want…

Has anyone you know been framed for domestic violence?

November 1, 2019

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Abuse, Amicable Divorce, Dirty Tricks, Divorce Costs, Divorce Fears, Divorce Mistakes, Divorce Preparedness, Domestic Violence, Men's Divorce Issues, Mental Illness, Protective Orders, Utah Law, Women's Divorce Issues

I’m a divorce and family lawyer, and so the crimes I see people framed for or manipulated into “committing” are domestic violence types. It’s frighteningly easy to do. Before I go any further, I note: virtually every time I write…

Should we put divorcing couples in an adversarial divorce court system?

People who are getting divorced fall into one of two categories: those who want to divorce while doing each other as little harm as possible; and those who don’t care what happens to their spouses in divorce and who are…

Can I ask a lawyer, “Would you elaborate your legal fees?”?

Of course you can ask the attorney to explain the basis for his/her legal fees and services pricing. Any attorney worth his/her salt and who has the requisite amount of humility and empathy will be willing to provide you with…