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From Utah Business Magazine: Utah Has Highest Percentage of Marriages in Past 10 Years

March 7, 2023

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From Utah Business Magazine: Utah has highest percentage of marriages in past 10 years https://www.utahbusiness.com/utah-has-highest-percentage-of-marriages-in-past-10-years/ Key findings (among many other interesting things): Utah, Idaho and Wyoming have the highest percentages of marriages. West Virginia, Arkansas and Maine have the highest…

What are your thoughts on a second marriage?

December 12, 2022

Divorce, Divorce Attorneys, Divorce Causes, Divorce Lawyers, Divorce Prevention/Marriage Preservation

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My answer comes from the perspective of a divorce lawyer who’s been in practice for 26 years. Note that I believe in marriage. Although I am a divorce lawyer myself, I am not divorced, and God willing, I never will…

What are some ways to make the divorce rate drop?

November 25, 2022

Divorce, Divorce Causes, Divorce Prevention/Marriage Preservation, Fathers' Divorce Issues, Men's Divorce Issues, Mothers' Divorce Issues, Women's Divorce Issues

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First, some marriages need to end in divorce. That is why divorce exists. But divorce is not always the answer when one or both spouses is/are miserable. Far too many divorces are not only unnecessary, but take things from bad…

Whose responsibility is it to reduce or put an end to the divorce rate in this modern day?

November 15, 2022

Children in Divorce, Coping With Divorce, Divorce Prevention/Marriage Preservation

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Few rational, intelligent, thinking people would argue that a divorce rate hovering around 50% is not too high. Society suffers from a high divorce rate and the broken families that result. Children suffer from a high divorce rate. Higher rates…

Why are so many attorneys seemingly against legal separation?

Why are so many attorneys seemingly against legal separation? I truly feel in my circumstance its best for me/us. Is it because they wont make as much money? We have already started the divorce process. Can it be switched? I…

Many unhappy couples rush into divorce, but is it a wise course?

October 11, 2022

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Clearly, acting in haste is risky behavior in any situation. Deciding to divorce is no exception. Rushing into divorce could result in an unnecessary divorce. Rushing into divorce could show your hand too early and result in losing on certain…

Why do people not complain about people who shouldn’t marry?

October 3, 2022

Divorce, Divorce Fears, Divorce Law, Divorce Prevention/Marriage Preservation, Family Law, Uncategorized

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Why do people complain about the high divorce rate, but don’t complain about people who shouldn’t marry? There will never be an effective, morally acceptable way to prevent the following kinds of people from marrying (and thus reducing the divorce…

What are the 3 main issues that lead to divorce these days?

Every time you hear about divorce, what are the 3 main issues that lead to divorce these days? I have been a divorce and family law attorney for 26 years. In that time I have spoken to thousands of people…

Would the divorce rate drop if the parties had to see a psychologist first?

What do you think would be the rate of divorce in marriages if psychologists were to be consulted in court by couples before proceeding to see the lawyer for divorce? Your intentions are good, your proposal won’t work. Short answer:…

How can I better understand the importance of marriage?

July 13, 2022

Children in Divorce, Co-parenting, Divorce, Divorce Prevention/Marriage Preservation, Parentage, Parenting Plan

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As a child with divorced parents, I find it hard to answer questions such as, “What is the importance of marriage?” How can I better understand the importance of marriage? Being a divorced parent does make it harder to make…

True or false: Better to divorce than have a miserable life.

This blog post is in response to this question: I don’t think it’s bad to get a divorce. I think it’s more unhealthy to have miserable lives. — Ginger Wynn. What are your thoughts on this statement? This statement tries…

Why do people get married only to divorce a few years later?

Why do people get married only to divorce a few years later? Doesn’t really sound like love to me. With the exception of those divorces that take place shortly after a marriage due to abuse, mental illness, fraud, and those…

Law from a legal assistant’s point of view, week 49

June 14, 2022

Divorce, Divorce Mistakes, Divorce Prevention/Marriage Preservation, Legal Assistant, Legal System

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By Quinton Lister, legal assistant What is the one thing that would help decrease divorce in the United States? I honestly think that commitment to marriage as more than a legal institution would lead to less divorce. As society has…

Is the percentage of married people getting a divorce still about 50%?

June 9, 2022

Divorce, Divorce Law, Divorce Prevention/Marriage Preservation, Divorce Procedure, Education, Family Law

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Is the percentage of married people getting a divorce still about 50%, or is it now higher? It’s actually a bit less than 50% currently and for the past few years. This is likely not because fewer people are divorcing as it…

How do I stop being afraid of divorcing?

How do I stop being afraid of divorcing? I’m so scared. I’ve been a stay-at-home mother for 18 years. I have health issues. I don’t know if I can provide for myself. Good on you for asking the question before you decide…

What are the most empirically robust factors that predict divorce?

April 22, 2022

Divorce, Divorce Causes, Divorce Fears, Divorce Preparedness, Divorce Prevention/Marriage Preservation

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What are the most empirically robust (causal) factors that predict marital dissolution (divorce)? I can give you my guess as to what I believe a rigorous study would reveal based upon my experience as a divorce and family lawyer for…

Why is the Divorce Rate Higher than Ever?

First, the divorce rate is not currently higher than ever. It has been higher in the past. Unfortunately, the reason the divorce rate is declining is likely because fewer people are marrying, not because fewer married people are choosing not…

True or false: Better to divorce than have a miserable life.

March 2, 2022

Best Interest of the Child, Divorce, Divorce Causes, Divorce Preparedness, Divorce Prevention/Marriage Preservation, Family Law, Fathers' Divorce Issues, Men's Divorce Issues, Mothers' Divorce Issues, Women's Divorce Issues

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This blog post is in response to this question: I don’t think it’s bad to get a divorce. I think it’s more unhealthy to have miserable lives. — Ginger Wynn. What are your thoughts on this statement? This statement tries to express a…

How does a divorce and separation from one parent affect children’s future relationships? Can this cause trust issues or commitment issues in the kids’ future relationship?

Can this cause trust issues or commitment issues in the kids’ future relationship? Yes, of course. How? When the children have witnessed and experienced the destruction of their parents’ relationship—a relationship that is not only part and parcel of their own…

Why is the divorce rate so high in the United States?

Why is the divorce rate so high in the United States? Until now, I would answer this question by stating that some of the main reasons for the high divorce rate in the United States were a failure to understand…

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