Parentage Archives - Divorce Utah

Why should I pay child support if the other parent isn’t asking for it (and doesn’t need it)?

This question doesn’t come up very often, but it does come up. I will answer this question according to the law of Utah, which is the jurisdiction where I practice divorce and family law (which includes the issue of child…

Why is it difficult for a father to get child custody?

February 13, 2021

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Why is it difficult for a father to get child custody? Because there is a pernicious and false belief in far too many of the courts (not, notably, in society at large) that generally: mothers are better parents than fathers;…

What’s the difference between legal custody and physical custody?

April 13, 2020

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Child Custody, Children in Divorce, Custody, Divorce Law, Divorce Mistakes, Divorce Preparedness, Fathers' Divorce Issues, Joint Legal Custody, Joint Physical Custody, Legal Custody, Men's Divorce Issues, Mothers' Divorce Issues, Parentage, Paternity, Physical Custody, Utah Law, Women's Divorce Issues

Here’s a question many parents have: what is the legal definition of “joint legal custody” and “joint physical custody” in Utah when it comes to the custody of children? Is there are difference? The answer: “Legal custody” is not the…

Velasquez v. Chavez – 2019 UT App 185 – child surname

November 28, 2019

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Name Change, Parentage, Parental Alienation, Parental Rights

769 P.2d 273 (Utah Ct. App. 1989), best interest of child, changing child’s surname, child, child’s best interest, decision, district court, Hamby v. Jacobson, six-factor test, surname, Utah Court of Appeals

2019 UT App 185 THE UTAH COURT OF APPEALS DARIO ARTHUR VELASQUEZ, Appellant, v. STACY L. CHAVEZ, Appellee. Opinion No. 20180451-CA Filed November 15, 2019 Third District Court, Salt Lake Department The Honorable Matthew Bates The Honorable Patrick Corum No.…

Have you ever doubted that your child was actually yours and decided not to find out if true?

February 22, 2019

Divorce Utah

Dirty Tricks, Parentage, Paternity

not the biological father, not the real father, real dad

No, but over the course of my career as a family lawyer I have spoken to several men who suspected they might not be the biological father of children they were raising or had raised to adulthood, but didn’t care…

Can I use Ancestry.com to prove or disprove paternity?

January 24, 2019

Divorce Utah

Parentage, Paternity

Ancestry.com, DNA test, parentage, paternity

Question: Can I use Ancestry.com to order child support? Answer: I think you’re asking whether you can use a commercial DNA testing service to prove in court that you are or are not the biological father of a child for…

I had a child from an affair but my husband is raising the baby and is on the birth certificate, can the other man get custody of my child?

December 27, 2017

Divorce Utah

Child Custody, Extramarital affairs/Adultery, Parentage, Paternity

I had a child from an affair but my husband is raising the baby and is on the birth certificate, can the other man get custody of my child? I practice law in Utah, so my answer is based upon…