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Should more people have to attend court-ordered parenting classes?

Should more people have to attend court-ordered parenting classes?

Generally speaking, no.

For the most part, when you lead a horse to water and try to force him to drink, the results are mediocre at best, disastrous at worst. Good parents don’t need these classes, bad parents don’t pay attention and/or rebel, so they don’t benefit from them.

This is a cure is worse than the disease situation. Having the government force people to do nanny state stuff like attend parenting classes is a terrible idea. At best it’s unenforceable and a ludicrous waste of tax dollars. At worst it heads the government and the people down the road to tyranny.

Utah Family Law, LC | | 801-466-9277

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What is the best case law to cite about parental alienation?

What is the best case law to cite during a high conflict custody battle where parental alienation has been occurring?

If you know of any, please let me know. My e-mail address is

Courts are, in my experience, very reluctant to acknowledge that parental alienation exists and does heinous damage to children and to parents, no matter how much or how compelling the evidence is that one provides.

I get that establishing parental alienation is hard as a matter of objective, verifiable proof, but courts make all kinds of crucial decisions on less than perfect information. I’m not suggesting that courts should arbitrarily and capriciously decide serious matters, but refusing to recognize parental alienation (not “parental alienation syndrome (PAS), just the acts and effects of one parent that estrange a child from his/her parent as the result of the other parent emotionally and/or psychologically manipulating the child, causing the child to fear or hold the other parent and that parent’s side of the family in contempt) cannot happen and does not frequently (not always, but far from rarely) occur is not just tragic, but needlessly tragic, when a preponderance of evidence is apparent.

Utah Family Law, LC | | 801-466-9277

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