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Were Amber Alerts created as a way to solve family custody disputes?

January 6, 2020

Child Abuse, Child Custody, Fathers' Divorce Issues, Men's Divorce Issues, Mothers' Divorce Issues, Women's Divorce Issues

Amber Alert, child custody, custody dispute

No, not at all. One of the absolute worst ways to address, much less resolve, family custody disputes is seeking an Amber alert. Indeed, making Amber alert reports over child custody disputes (as opposed to genuine concern that an actual…

How is the custody going to work after separation?

After filling for legal separation where is my only child going to stay? I have my child with me right now. How is the custody going to work after separation? The question of what the court will do regarding child…

Why don’t the police help more with custody and parent-time enforcement?

In some jurisdictions, interference with or noncompliance with child custody orders issued by a court are not enforceable by police officers or sheriff’s deputies because there is no statute or statutes that authorize and empower the police to intervene. This is…

Are bedbugs a basis for modifying child custody or parent-time?

December 4, 2019

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Child Custody, Child Custody Modification, Children in Divorce

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If one parent has bedbugs and the children will not sleep at the parents home, does the other parent have to make a motion for full custody? Can the parent without bedbugs be sanctioned for failure to coparent? I am…

Can children choose with which parent they will live?

July 24, 2019

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Child Custody, Child Custody Modification, Children in Divorce, Co-parenting, Custody

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How much input do you let your child have in deciding who they’re going to live with or which parent they’ll be spending more time with? This is a question on which the law has gone back and forth. In…

Do women get sole or primary custody of children by default?

July 22, 2019

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Child Custody, Children in Divorce, Custody, Fathers' Divorce Issues, Men's Divorce Issues, Mothers' Divorce Issues, Utah Law, Women's Divorce Issues

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How do you feel about the fact that in divorce, the mother seems to get custody of the child almost by default? Wouldn’t it make more sense to have 50/50 custody by default, or an actual assessment on which parent…

Child Custody, Utah Code Section 30-3-10, and medical cannabis

May 16, 2019

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Child Custody, Children in Divorce, Custody, Divorce Law, Utah Code, Utah Law

30-3-10, child custody, marijuana, medical cannabis, medical marijuana, Utah code

Section 30-3-10 provides some of the criteria the court must consider in analyzing and making its custody award. With the legalization of medical marijuana, the Utah legislature amended Section 30-3-10 to ensure that parents who legally use or sell medical…

If my spouse cheats, and we divorce will I get custody of my children?

May 1, 2019

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Adultery, Child Custody, Children in Divorce, Divorce Mistakes, Fathers' Divorce Issues, Infidelity, Legal Custody, Men's Divorce Issues, Mothers' Divorce Issues, Women's Divorce Issues

adultery, child custody, infidelity

In response to the question, “If my spouse cheats, and we divorce, will I get custody of the children because of my spouse’s infidelity?,” the answer is unequivocally “no.” No state in the United States awards custody to the cheated-on…

What’s the best way to decide who takes the children when a couple splits?

April 29, 2019

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Child Custody, Children in Divorce, Divorce Fears, Divorce Mistakes, Divorce Preparedness, Fathers' Divorce Issues, Men's Divorce Issues, Mothers' Divorce Issues, Women's Divorce Issues

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I’ll tell you one thing, it’s not the illusory “standard” (that’s not really a standard in the first place) of the “best interest of the child” that everybody talks about. The goal of a child custody award should be the…

Cox v. Hefley 2019 UT App 60 – attorney consent or consultation, third party decision-maker

2019 UT App 60 THE UTAH COURT OF APPEALS CAMERON MICHAEL COX, Appellee, v. PAIGE CHARISSA HEFLEY, Appellant. Opinion No. 20170903-CA Filed April 18, 2019 Second District Court, Ogden Department The Honorable W. Brent West No. 134901221 David Pedrazas, Attorney…

Computer and Online Evidence in Divorce and Child Custody Cases

February 4, 2019

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Dirty Tricks, Divorce Fears, Divorce Law, Divorce Preparedness, Preparing for Divorce, Spousal Spying

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I learned from this article (see the link below) a few things I didn’t know about computer and online evidence in divorce and child custody cases. You’d be wise to read it too, regardless of whether you believe your spouse is…

Can a stepparent get custody of a stepchild, if the biological/adoptive parent’s parental rights are terminated?

January 30, 2019

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Child Custody, Custody, Stepparents

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Question: If a child’s parents were to lose custody of him, and the only family member left was the stepparent’s family (not legally related), would the stepparent(s) get the child? Answer: Not as a matter of right. They could try…

At what age can children decide which parent they want to live with?

It’s largely a matter of age and size/strength or resourcefulness. Technically a child never legally has the power to choose with which parent he/she will live (the only person with that power is the judge). But as a matter of…

What useful things can Jeff Bezos’s divorce can teach us

Question: Amazon boss Jeff Bezos and wife MacKenzie are divorcing. Who do you think will get the custody of their 4 kids? I don’t know enough about the family’s circumstances to know. Assuming both parents are personally “fit” to exercise…

Marijuana and Child Custody Still Don’t Mix in Utah, You Fools! Ignore This at Your Peril!

December 10, 2018

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Child Custody, Children in Divorce, Custody

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No matter what you’re told, marijuana use is STILL ILLEGAL in this state. Illegal use of street drugs, including but not limited to marijuana, can and surely will be used against you in a child custody dispute. And you can’t…

Child Custody: what does it mean in divorce, and what factors determine who gets child custody?

December 7, 2018

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Child Custody, Children in Divorce, Fathers' Divorce Issues, Joint Legal Custody, Joint Physical Custody, Legal Custody, Men's Divorce Issues, Mothers' Divorce Issues, Parent Time, Physical Custody, Visitation, Women's Divorce Issues

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One of the biggest worries (perhaps the biggest) for a parent going through divorce is the question of child custody. A common misperception is that “child custody” means simply who your children will live with after you and your ex-spouse…

How do I show the court about my sons non-diagnosed NPD mother to get a sole custody?

September 10, 2018

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Child Custody, Children in Divorce, Custody, Personality Disorders

Borderline Personality Disorder, child custody, Narcissistic Personality Disorders

How do I show the court about my sons non-diagnosed NPD mother to get a sole custody? Oh, ho, ho, ho. So you want to prove your wife has Narcissistic Personality Disorder do you? And you believe that proving it…

What is the best way to get a 50/50 custody and visitation plan in family court?

September 5, 2018

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Child Custody, Children in Divorce, Custody, Divorce Law, Fathers' Divorce Issues, Men's Divorce Issues, Mothers' Divorce Issues, Parental Fitness, Parental Rights, Parenting Plan, Physical Custody, Women's Divorce Issues

child custody, joint custody, legal custody, physical custody

There are many, many factors the judge will consider. I’ll list them. First and foremost is: distance between the parents. If the parents don’t live close enough to each other to make joint custody work, the court simply won’t award…

Child custody and how parental sociopathy affects it

August 27, 2018

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Child Custody, Children in Divorce, Mental Illness

ASPD, child custody, sociopathy

QUESTION (Child custody and parental sociopathy): How does ASPD (Sociopathy) affect child custody, especially if the diagnosed parent is consistent? ANSWER (Robert A. Simon, Ph.D., Ph.D., M.A. Clinical Psychology, California School of Professional Psychology (1986) Question Answered on Quora June…

Why don’t some people fight for custody of their children?

August 13, 2018

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Child Custody, Children in Divorce, Custody

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Why don’t some people fight for child custody in some divorce or child custody cases? Others have explained why, in their particular situations, they felt that while they desired custody, they couldn’t get it, and so they didn’t fight a…

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