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Judge says stay away from my paramour. Can judge do that?

Judge says stay away from my paramour. Can judge do that? I became pregnant by my paramour after my husband and I separated. The court order states we are not to have paramours around our child. Will the judge take…

Allen v. Allen – 2021 UT App 20 – custody, alimony, child support

March 1, 2021

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Allen v. Allen – 2021 UT App 20 http://www.utcourts.gov/opinions/view.html?court=appopin&opinion=Allen v. Allen20210225_20190369_20.pdf 2021 UT App 20 THE UTAH COURT OF APPEALS REBECCA ELLEN ALLEN, Appellee, v. KENT DARIUS ALLEN,Appellant. Opinion No. 20190369-CA Filed February 25, 2021 Third District Court, Salt Lake…

What are suggestions for modifying child custody for an alternating weekend schedule if Monday drop-offs are removed and weekdays are not an option?

What are suggestions for modifying child custody for an alternating weekend schedule if Monday drop-offs are removed and weekdays are not an option? Is this a trick question? Correct me if I am mistaken, but if the requirements and restrictions…

Why is it difficult for a father to get child custody?

February 13, 2021

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Why is it difficult for a father to get child custody? Because there is a pernicious and false belief in far too many of the courts (not, notably, in society at large) that generally: mothers are better parents than fathers;…

If a parent disappears for five years, what are his/her chances of winning child custody?

December 15, 2020

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Abandonment and Desertion, Child Custody, Child Neglect, Children in Divorce, Custody, Uncategorized

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If a parent disappears for five years, what are his/her chances of winning child custody? As long as 1) Dad’s story/situation isn’t worse than Mom’s, and 2) Dad’s not responsible for Mom being out of the picture for 5 years,…

My ex allows our children to watch TikTok. Is this grounds for seeking full custody?

December 8, 2020

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My ex allows our children to watch TikTok. Is this grounds for seeking full custody? I forbade my child from watching TikTok because I worry it lowers IQ. However, my ex-spouse allows them to use it at their house. Is…

What happens after an affair when you have kids?

What happens after an affair when you have kids? I will answer as if this question were asked in the belief that the affair will have a profound effect upon child custody, child support, and/or alimony. If you have had…

Can an unmarried parent legally keep the other parent from the children without having gone to court?

November 13, 2020

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Can an unmarried parent legally keep the other parent from the children without having gone to court? Yes. In the absence of a court order to the contrary, it is not illegal for one parent to keep the children from…

What happens after an affair when you have kids?

What happens after an affair when you have kids? I’ll answer as if this question were asked in the belief that the affair will have a profound effect upon child custody, child support, and/or alimony. If you’ve had an extramarital…

Will my medical marijuana prescription adversely affect my child custody case?

October 28, 2020

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Child Custody, Children in Divorce, Parental Fitness, Substance Abuse, Visitation, Women's Divorce Issues

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If I have a prescription for marijuana, will this affect my custody case? I do not smoke in front of my child or have it around my child. Probably not, as long as you can A) prove the prescription is…

How can I choose which of my parents gets custody of me?

How can I choose which of my parents gets custody of me? In Utah, a child can’t choose. At least not anymore. Under current Utah law, children do not get to choose which parent will be awarded custody or what…

Unique challenges for men and women face in divorce and child custody

September 16, 2020

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The unique challenges men and women face in divorce and child custody cases What follows is my opinion, but my honest and sincere opinion born of experience over the past 23 years in the practice of divorce and family law.…

What does it take to get the court to award custody to the father?

What does it take to get the court to award custody to the father? Either: A) a miracle or B) the mother has to be so clearly an unfit parent that the court cannot both i) award her custody and…

Can I refuse visitation when a non-custodial parent refuses to take a child to school?

August 26, 2020

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Child Custody, Child Custody Modification, Children in Divorce, Custody, Modification of Child Custody

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Can I refuse visitation when a non-custodial parent refuses to take a child to school? In the jurisdiction where I practice divorce and family law (Utah), the answer is: Unless you have a court order that allows you to refuse…

Does refusal to return a child after the weekend automatically give me custody?

August 4, 2020

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Does refusal to return a child after the weekend automatically give me custody? My daughter’s dad took her for the weekend and never brought her home it’s been almost a month he won’t respond to my calls do I automatically…

Can a mother keeping the children from the father work against in custody litigation?

Can a mother not allowing the father to see his child without reason work against her in litigation for joint custody? Would the father having children from another relationship living in the home as well impact the decision for joint…

If you haven’t seen “Erasing Family” and you’re going through a child custody dispute

June 4, 2020

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Child Custody, Coping With Divorce, Custody, Divorce Fears, Divorce Law, Divorce Mistakes, Divorce Preparedness, Fathers' Divorce Issues, Men's Divorce Issues, Mothers' Divorce Issues, Women's Divorce Issues

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If you haven’t seen “Erasing Family” and you’re going through a child custody dispute, you should. You really should. Because you really don’t have any idea what you’re in for. Oh, I know you believe you do. You don’t. I…

Do I have a chance in divorce court without a lawyer? Do I really need one?

A chance? Sure. You have a chance. And you have a chance of winning the lottery, just not a very good chance of it. You may not want to read the rest of my answer because I am a lawyer,…

Why does it seem like courts are against fathers when it comes to custody?

May 14, 2020

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Child Custody, Custody, Fathers' Divorce Issues, Men's Divorce Issues, Mothers' Divorce Issues, Women's Divorce Issues

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Why does it seem like courts are against fathers when it comes to custody? Because while the courts are becoming less and less biased against fathers as time goes by, they are still generally biased against fathers when it comes…

What does a judge ask a child in a custody case?

In Utah (where I practice divorce and child custody law) the answer is: it’s almost impossible to say. Why? For reasons that I assert I can demonstrate are not highly rational*, the majority of judges are extremely reluctant to question…

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