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Can a mother keeping the children from the father work against in custody litigation?

Can a mother not allowing the father to see his child without reason work against her in litigation for joint custody? Would the father having children from another relationship living in the home as well impact the decision for joint…

If you haven’t seen “Erasing Family” and you’re going through a child custody dispute

June 4, 2020

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Child Custody, Coping With Divorce, Custody, Divorce Fears, Divorce Law, Divorce Mistakes, Divorce Preparedness, Fathers' Divorce Issues, Men's Divorce Issues, Mothers' Divorce Issues, Women's Divorce Issues

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If you haven’t seen “Erasing Family” and you’re going through a child custody dispute, you should. You really should. Because you really don’t have any idea what you’re in for. Oh, I know you believe you do. You don’t. I…

Do I have a chance in divorce court without a lawyer? Do I really need one?

A chance? Sure. You have a chance. And you have a chance of winning the lottery, just not a very good chance of it. You may not want to read the rest of my answer because I am a lawyer,…

Why does it seem like courts are against fathers when it comes to custody?

May 14, 2020

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Child Custody, Custody, Fathers' Divorce Issues, Men's Divorce Issues, Mothers' Divorce Issues, Women's Divorce Issues

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Why does it seem like courts are against fathers when it comes to custody? Because while the courts are becoming less and less biased against fathers as time goes by, they are still generally biased against fathers when it comes…

What does a judge ask a child in a custody case?

In Utah (where I practice divorce and child custody law) the answer is: it’s almost impossible to say. Why? For reasons that I assert I can demonstrate are not highly rational*, the majority of judges are extremely reluctant to question…

Is it advantageous to lie and sling mud at the other parent to win custody?

Today’s question is: Is it advantageous for the father to file with the court a 2 page document of fabricated lies about mother in a child custody battle as part of the ‘arsenals’ used to win a custody battle and…

Can my ex use the panic over COVID-19 to withhold the kids from me?

March 23, 2020

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Child Abuse, Child Custody, Child Custody Modification, Custodial Interference, Custody, Fathers' Divorce Issues, Men's Divorce Issues, Mothers' Divorce Issues, Women's Divorce Issues

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“Can my ex use the panic over Coronavirus/COVID-19 to withhold the kids from me?” “Will I still be free to pick my son up at the end of the week from his spring break visitation? With all the panic over…

Do the family courts in the U.S. tend to favor the mother over the father?

March 19, 2020

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Child Custody, Children in Divorce, Custody, Divorce Fears, Divorce Mistakes, Divorce Preparedness, Fathers' Divorce Issues, Joint Legal Custody, Joint Physical Custody, Men's Divorce Issues, Mothers' Divorce Issues, Women's Divorce Issues

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Do the family courts in the U.S. tend to favor the mother over the father? Generally, yes. The courts are slowly, but noticeably, becoming less biased in favor of mothers over fathers, but the bias is still undeniably there. Fathers…

I’m a year sober. Can my alcoholism hurt my child custody chances?

March 17, 2020

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Addiction, Child Custody, Custody, Custody Evaluation, Parental Fitness, Substance Abuse

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I’m an alcoholic who endured domestic violence in my marriage. My husband exploited my addiction when he wanted an excuse to replace me. Now he’s trying to use it as a means to get custody. Can this damage my case…

If we agree on child support and custody, can the judge reject our agreement?

March 12, 2020

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Child Custody, Child Support, Custody, Mediation, Settlement

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If my husband and I agree on child support and custody in mediation, can the judge reject our agreement? Yes. A judge is not obligated to approve of and adopt as his/her child custody order the agreement the parents may…

How many states favor mothers in child custody proceedings?

How many states favor giving the child to its mother in a custody hearing? You’re asking a good question, but it’s not the question you think you’re asking. The question is not whether a particular “state” favors awarding custody of…

Can an abusive father win custody even if they’re not legally married?

March 6, 2020

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Abuse, Child Custody, Children in Divorce, Fathers' Divorce Issues, Men's Divorce Issues, Mothers' Divorce Issues, Women's Divorce Issues

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I’m in an emotionally, verbally, and financially abusive relationship. Can an abusive father win custody even if they’re not legally married? Anybody can do or get anything, if he/she tries hard and the circumstances work in his/her favor. Anybody can…

Divorcing parents in psychiatric care deny thoughts of self-harm?

Do parents in psychiatric care deny thoughts of self-harm for fear admitting it may impact custody? Is it common for a parent in psychiatric care to make false denials of thoughts of self-harm for fear that doing so may adversely impact…

Should all the kids stay with one parent after a divorce? Why or why not?

January 24, 2020

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Best Interest of the Child, Child Custody, Custody, Dirty Tricks, Divorce Preparedness, Fathers' Divorce Issues, Men's Divorce Issues, Mothers' Divorce Issues, Women's Divorce Issues

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I am a divorce and family lawyer. I have been for 23 years. It is impossible to come up with a blanket policy for all children of all parents in all families. For example, if a divorce were precipitated by…

Were Amber Alerts created as a way to solve family custody disputes?

January 6, 2020

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Child Abuse, Child Custody, Fathers' Divorce Issues, Men's Divorce Issues, Mothers' Divorce Issues, Women's Divorce Issues

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No, not at all. One of the absolute worst ways to address, much less resolve, family custody disputes is seeking an Amber alert. Indeed, making Amber alert reports over child custody disputes (as opposed to genuine concern that an actual…

Best way to handle a child custody dispute with a mentally ill ex?

January 4, 2020

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Dirty Tricks, Divorce Fears, Divorce Mistakes, Divorce Preparedness, Mental Illness

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After procuring an attorney for the matter, what is the best way to prepare for an upcoming child custody dispute with a PBPD ex? I am amazed at the number of people who believe that courts are interested in whether…

How is the custody going to work after separation?

After filling for legal separation where is my only child going to stay? I have my child with me right now. How is the custody going to work after separation? The question of what the court will do regarding child…

Why don’t the police help more with custody and parent-time enforcement?

In some jurisdictions, interference with or noncompliance with child custody orders issued by a court are not enforceable by police officers or sheriff’s deputies because there is no statute or statutes that authorize and empower the police to intervene. This is…

Are bedbugs a basis for modifying child custody or parent-time?

December 4, 2019

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Child Custody, Child Custody Modification, Children in Divorce

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If one parent has bedbugs and the children will not sleep at the parents home, does the other parent have to make a motion for full custody? Can the parent without bedbugs be sanctioned for failure to coparent? I am…

Can children choose with which parent they will live?

July 24, 2019

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Child Custody, Child Custody Modification, Children in Divorce, Co-parenting, Custody

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How much input do you let your child have in deciding who they’re going to live with or which parent they’ll be spending more time with? This is a question on which the law has gone back and forth. In…

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