I have custody of my child. He left to go to his mom’s last Friday for the weekend. He is refusing to come home because he wants to live there. What happens now?
I will answer this question in the context of my experience as a lawyer in the jurisdiction where I practice divorce and family law, which is Utah.
And that answer is: realistically speaking, probably nothing.
As a divorce and family law attorney, I have been on both sides of this issue, meaning I’ve represented the parent with custody of the child who won’t come back, and I’ve also represented the noncustodial parent to whose house the child has “fled” and won’t leave.
This is a weird area of Utah law because you’ll hear the legislature and the courts tell you that children don’t get to choose where they live, and then when children do that very thing (i.e., refuse to live where the court orders them to live), the courts find themselves essentially powerless to change anything. At least that’s my experience over the 24 years I’ve been in practice.
Briefly, if the children are old enough that they cannot be physically controlled by a parent and forced into a car from the noncustodial parents house back to the custodial parent’s house, then the courts are usually not going to intervene. This means that a court will, in fairness and realistically, tell the parents that pragmatically there’s really nothing that they ought to do to enforce the child custody order if the child himself or herself is old enough to put up a fight and/or call the police and/or DCFS and report you for child abuse if you try to force them into the car to go back to the custodial parent’s house. Besides, the child who is old enough to put up a fight is also likely old enough to run away from the noncustodial parents home if anyone tries to force him or her to reside with a parent with whom the child doesn’t want to live.
And so, you get in a situation where the child is disobeying the court’s custody order, but most courts either don’t have the cats to hold the child in contempt of court or don’t feel it is appropriate to sanction a child who won’t comply with the court’s child custody orders. Yet these same courts will also often refuse to modify the child custody award because they don’t want to acknowledge that children, of all people, have the de facto power to defy court orders with impunity.
Next, you need to be aware of the possibility that your custodial parent ex will try to blame you for your child refusing to return to the custodial parent’s home, regardless of whether that is true. Many times, a perfectly innocent noncustodial parent will tell his or her acts and the court, “Look, I’ve told the child what the court order is and that both our and I are expected to comply. But the child refuses to comply anyway. Now what you want me to do? Kick the child out and lock the door behind him?” Some courts sympathize with that predicament, others don’t buy it. Which means it is entirely possible that you would be held in contempt of court for doing absolutely nothing wrong, if the court believes you enticed or coheirs the child to say he or she wants to stay with you. So you need to keep that in mind.
So if you are a noncustodial parent of a child who refuses to reside with the court ordered custodial parent, then you must ask yourself a few questions:
First, if the child refusing to live with the custodial parent because the child is a spoiled brat who has no legitimate reason for refusing to live with the custodial parent? If the answer is yes, then you as the noncustodial parent have both a legal and moral obligation to talk the child into going back to the custodial parent’s home, or if persuasion doesn’t work, imposing limitations and restrictions and punishments upon the child so that the child won’t get the impression that he or she is in charge.
Second, if the child is refusing to reside with the custodial parent because the custodial parent is truly neglectful and/or abusive, and if you have independently verifiable proof of this, you have the option of petitioning the court to modify the child custody award, changing the custodial parent from your ex to you. While that petition is pending, your child may refuse to return to the custodial parent’s home, and for reasons at least you and the child know to be valid. Whether the court allows your child to stay with you depends upon how your court views the situation and what is best for the child.
If you find yourself in this kind of situation, whether you are the custodial parent or the noncustodial parent, this is one of those situations where you need to seek good legal advice immediately, to help ensure that neither you nor the child is victimized.
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I am the noncustodial parent. Our child came to my house for parent-time and now refuses to leave because he wants to live with me. What happens now?
I will answer this question in the context of my experience as a lawyer in the jurisdiction where I practice divorce and family law, which is Utah.
This is a weird area of Utah law because you’ll hear the legislature and the courts tell you that children don’t get to choose where they live, and then when children do that very thing (i.e., refuse to live where the court orders them to live), the courts find themselves essentially powerless to change anything. At least that’s my experience over the 24 years I’ve been in practice.
Now before some of you start licking your lips and scheming, thinking, “I’m the noncustodial parent, but I can change that by simply telling our child to choose to refuse to return to the custodial parent’s house,” you need to be aware of the realities.
If you’re the noncustodial parent and your child or children are under the age of 14 or so, and they claim that they don’t want to live with the custodial parent, there’s a very good chance that the court is going to believe that you are a puppet master who coached the children or otherwise induced or coerced them into claiming they want to live with you. That may not be true, but you’re going to be met with that kind of skeptical presumption. So if you are the noncustodial parent with young children who you assert claim they don’t want to live with the custodial parent, you have an uphill battle ahead of you. If you are the noncustodial parent and a father, you have an almost impossibly uphill battle ahead of you.
If, however, your children are 14 years or older, and you are the noncustodial parent with whom your children say they want to live, it will be harder for your ex and/or the court to presume that the children are lying and/or don’t have good reasons for wanting to live with you. Again, if you are the father making this claim, your claim will be met with more skepticism than if you were the noncustodial mother making such a claim. Why is this? Because there is a pernicious belief in the legal system that fathers are generally worse parents than our mothers, that fathers don’t want custody of their children, and that the only reason fathers would seek custody of their children is to avoid paying child support. As a result of these beliefs, fathers who seek custody of their children are met with not just skepticism, but often derisive skepticism. Forewarned is forearmed.
So, if you are a noncustodial parent who is good and decent, and your child honestly and sincerely comes to you saying, “mom/dad, I can’t stand living with the custodial parent anymore, and I want to live with you,” how do you proceed?
First, if the child refusing to live with the custodial parent because the child just wants to spend more time with you and/or less time with the custodial parent, and the custodial parent is not neglecting or abusing the child in any way, then you as the noncustodial parent have both a legal and moral obligation to talk the child into going back to the custodial parent’s home, or if persuasion doesn’t work, imposing limitations and restrictions and punishments upon the child so that the child won’t get the impression that he or she is in charge. At the same time, the custodial parent needs to acknowledge the child’s desires to spend more time with the noncustodial parent as being a legitimate concern that needs to be addressed and resolved, and that usually means the custodial parent agreeing to give the child and the noncustodial parent more time together. If the custodial parent refuses to do the right thing, you may ask whether it’s wise to petition the court for a modification of the child custody award, so that you and the child get more time together. Unfortunately, odds are that if you file a petition to modify child custody and the only basis for your petition is the child’s desire to spend more time with you, you will probably lose. While it is technically and conceivably possible to win such a petition, usually the courts in Utah require more than just the child’s desire as the basis for a modification. And what form does this “more” take? Typically, you would have to show that the custodial parent is neglecting and/or abusing the child to get a modification of the child custody award.
Second, if the child is refusing to reside with the custodial parent because the custodial parent is truly neglectful and/or abusive, and if you have independently verifiable proof of this, you have the option of petitioning the court to modify the child custody award, changing the custodial parent from your ex to you. While that petition is pending, your child may refuse to return to the custodial parent’s home, and for reasons at least you and the child know to be valid. Whether the court allows your child to stay with you depends upon how your court views the situation and what is best for the child.
If you find yourself in this kind of situation, whether you are the custodial parent or the noncustodial parent, this is one of those situations where you need to seek good legal advice immediately, to help ensure that neither you nor the child is victimized.
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HUGH LYNN BJARNSON,
Appellant,
v.
JENNIFER LOU BJARNSON,
Appellee.
Opinion
No. 20190734-CA
Filed October 16, 2020
Fourth District Court, Provo Department
The Honorable Derek P. Pullan
No. 164400963
Aaron R. Harris, Attorney for Appellant
Rosemond G. Blakelock and Megan P. Blakelock, Attorneys for Appellee
JUDGE GREGORY K. ORME authored this Opinion, in which JUDGES MICHELE M. CHRISTIANSEN FORSTER and JILL M. POHLMAN
concurred.
ORME, Judge:
¶1 Hugh Lynn Bjarnson and Jennifer Lou Bjarnson were married in 2008. In 2016, Hugh[1] filed for divorce, and the parties separated three months later. Following a bench trial, the district court entered a decree of divorce in 2019. The court’s alimony determination is the sole point of contention on appeal.
¶2 Following the couple’s separation, Jennifer moved in with her ailing mother, with whom she had also lived between the time she separated from a former husband and when she moved in with Hugh. She could not recall how long she had lived with her mother the first time but said that she had done so “briefly.” Her mother’s residence is a fully furnished three-level home, on five acres, in which Jennifer had her own bedroom. When she moved in following her separation from Hugh, she did not pay rent, although she provided care to her mother and testified that she paid her mother’s water assessment. Jennifer asserted at trial that she could not afford to rent an apartment at that time and was “living there because [she had] nowhere else to live.” It was entirely unclear how long she would remain there.[2]
¶3 The court determined that Jennifer was entitled to a monthly alimony award of $1,830, $1,000 of which accounted for her anticipated monthly housing expense, as reflected in her financial declaration. But because she was not obligated to pay rent while living with her mother, the court ordered Hugh to make alimony payments “for the length of the marriage in the amount of $830 per month until . . . Jennifer secures her own housing,” at which time the “alimony will increase to $1,830 per month.” Hugh appeals.
¶4 Hugh’s argument is limited to the prospective aspect of the district court’s alimony award. He does not challenge the $830 monthly obligation currently payable. Instead, he contends that the court exceeded its discretion by ordering a prospective increase in his alimony obligation based upon an uncertain future event. We agree.
¶5 Although “trial courts have broad latitude in determining whether to award alimony and in setting the amount, and we will not lightly disturb a trial court’s alimony ruling, . . . we will reverse if the court has not exercised its discretion within the bounds and under the standards we have set.” Rule v. Rule, 2017 UT App 137, ¶ 11, 402 P.3d 153 (quotation simplified). See also State v. De La Rosa, 2019 UT App 110, ¶ 4, 445 P.3d 955 (“Trial courts do not have discretion to misapply the law.”) (quotation simplified). We conclude that it was legal error for the district court to order a prospective increase in alimony based on a possible future event without first finding when—or even whether—such an event will occur. Instead, the court should have reserved the question of a possible change in alimony for a later petition to modify the alimony award should Jennifer’s housing situation change.
¶6 “A prospective change in alimony alters the award to which the recipient spouse would otherwise be entitled based on the trial court’s anticipation of a future event that will materially change the parties’ circumstances.” Boyer v. Boyer, 2011 UT App 141, ¶ 15, 259 P.3d 1063. But because “the trial court will be better able to make an educated adjustment when and if [a possible future] event actually occurs,” id., “prospective changes to alimony are disfavored,” Richardson v. Richardson, 2008 UT 57, ¶ 10, 201 P.3d 942. Indeed, they are appropriate “only as to future events that are ‘certain to occur within a known time frame.’” MacDonald v. MacDonald, 2018 UT 48, ¶ 40, 430 P.3d 612 (quoting Richardson, 2008 UT 57, ¶ 10). Thus, in Richardson, a prospective change in alimony was appropriate where it was based on events that were certain to occur on specified dates. See 2008 UT 57, ¶¶ 10–11. In contrast, “a plan to retire, without actually retiring, would be insufficient to justify a prospective alimony reduction.” Id. ¶ 10.
¶7 Here, the district court ordered Hugh to pay a prospective alimony increase of $1,000 per month when “Jennifer secures her own housing.” Other than noting that Jennifer was “residing with her mother rent free right now,” the court made no factual findings regarding her future housing. It did not find that it was “certain” that Jennifer would secure her own independent housing, much less that it would occur “within a known time frame.” See id. Indeed, it could not have so found absent any indication that Jennifer was actively searching for independent housing, that she intended to move out of her mother’s home within a certain timeframe, or that her current living arrangements would be short-lived. The amount of the appropriate increase was also necessarily speculative. The $1,000 may have been a solid estimate based on current conditions, but either high or low depending on when and whither she relocates—if she does. The prospective modification to the alimony award was thus improper under Richardson and its progeny, even though the court’s desire for efficiency is understandable.
¶8 Jennifer argues that “[h]ousing was not considered by the court to be some ‘future’ event.” Rather, she contends the court ordered the alimony increase with the goal of “restor[ing] the parties to the same standard of living that existed during the marriage,” and because an independent living situation had been Jennifer’s standard of living during her marriage, the court properly determined that she was entitled to monthly alimony payments in the amount of $1,830. In support of this argument, she relies on Sauer v. Sauer, 2017 UT App 114, 400 P.3d 1204, in which we affirmed the trial court’s decision to base part of its alimony award on the payee’s future expected housing expenses. See id. ¶ 10. In Sauer, the trial court based its decision on the facts that the payee “live[d] in a trailer on a friend’s property” and that “it [was] unknown how long a person can survive on the good nature of a friend.” Id. (quotation simplified). We noted that the court’s “determination ma[de] conceptual sense” because “[i]n the aftermath of a separation, a party may temporarily return to his or her parents’ home, shelter with friends, or become homeless and thus incur no actual housing expenses.” Id. ¶ 10 n.3. In such situations, “the court may consider what constitutes a reasonable rental or mortgage payment in the relevant area for housing similar to the housing previously shared by the parties.” Id.
¶9 Although the district court in this case would have been entitled to make such a determination if it had found that Jennifer’s living situation with her mother was a temporary byproduct of the divorce, as with the examples mentioned in Sauer, the court took a different course. Instead of ordering Hugh to immediately begin making monthly payments of $1,830—as would have been consistent with the approach taken in Sauer— the court determined that a monthly alimony award of $830 was sufficient to maintain Jennifer’s standard of living while she lived with her mother. The court then made the $1,000 increase in alimony conditional on Jennifer securing her own housing at some later date. The increase was unquestionably a prospective change to its alimony award because it was based “on the trial court’s anticipation of a future event that will materially change the parties’ circumstances,” i.e., a change in Jennifer’s living situation. See Boyer, 2011 UT App 141, ¶ 15. Thus, the court erred in ordering the prospective increase without first concluding that the material change was “certain to occur within a known time frame.” See Richardson, 2008 UT 57, ¶ 10.
¶10 To be sure, the uncertainty of whether or when Jennifer would secure her own independent living arrangement does not undercut her ability to do exactly that at some future date and to seek a corresponding increase in the amount of her alimony. The district court already determined that she would be entitled to an increase in that event. But the proper procedure for seeking an increase in alimony, should she eventually secure other housing, would be for her to file a petition to modify the alimony award. See Utah Code Ann. § 30-3-5(10)(a) (LexisNexis Supp. 2020). Where an anticipated event is too speculative for the court to consider in its alimony determination at the time of divorce, as is the case here, “the court may . . . delay the determination” by entering “findings indicating that the future [event] has not been considered in making the present award” because material information regarding the future event was unavailable to the court at the time of the divorce decree, thereby avoiding future dismissal of the petition to modify on foreseeability grounds. MacDonald, 2018 UT 48, ¶ 35 (quotation simplified). See id. ¶¶ 34–36, 40–41.
¶11 We therefore vacate the portion of the court’s decree prospectively increasing the alimony award and remand for the court to enter the necessary findings so that the issue is preserved for future resolution and the determination can be made later upon a petition to modify, with any “foreseeability” argument Hugh might otherwise be inclined to make being effectively foreclosed.[3]
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[1] Because the parties share the same surname, we refer to them by their first names, with no disrespect intended by the apparent informality.
[2] Nothing in the record or briefing suggests that Jennifer’s living situation has changed subsequent to entry of the divorce decree.
[3] Because Hugh prevails on appeal, we deny Jennifer’s request for attorney fees, premised on rule 33 of the Utah Rules of Appellate Procedure.
Do you flee the country to avoid alimony? Or do you happily comply?
First, let’s discuss the “option” of fleeing the country to avoid paying alimony. It’s not really an option unless you consider obeying the law optional. In one sense, obeying the law is not optional because the law itself says so and makes provision for its enforcement by those who will not obey it. In another sense, obeying the law is not morally or ethically optional because if everyone treated obedience to law as optional and without adverse consequences for disobedience to it, we’d have anarchy, chaos, and misery.
Second, you have more options than those you listed in your question. If you are divorced and forced to pay alimony to your narcissistic ex-spouse, you not only have the options of 1) fleeing the country to avoid paying or 2) “happily complying”; you can also 3) grudgingly comply or 4) have the option of taking action in court to modify or terminate the alimony award.
The option of taking action in court to modify or terminate the alimony award is contingent on whether you can meet the legal requirements for modification. In Utah, where I practice divorce law, those requirements are either:
Unless a decree of divorce specifically provides otherwise, establishment by the party paying alimony that the former spouse, after the order for alimony is issued, cohabits with another individual, even if the former spouse is not cohabiting with another person when the party paying alimony files the motion to terminate alimony (and note that a party paying alimony to a former spouse may not seek termination of alimony under this provision later than one year from the day on which the party knew or should have known that the former spouse has cohabited with another individual); or
proving that, based on a substantial material change in circumstances not foreseeable at the time of the divorce, a modification or termination of the alimony award is warranted or necessary. Regardless of whether a party’s retirement is foreseeable, the party’s retirement is a substantial material change in circumstances that is subject to a petition to modify alimony, unless the divorce decree expressly states otherwise.
In determining an alimony modification (which could include termination), the income of any subsequent spouse of the alimony payor may not be considered, with the exceptions that the court may consider the subsequent spouse’s financial ability to share living expenses, or if the court finds that the payor’s improper conduct justifies that consideration, or if the court finds some other compelling reason to do so.
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Can I refuse visitation when a non-custodial parent refuses to take a child to school?
In the jurisdiction where I practice divorce and family law (Utah), the answer is:
Unless you have a court order that allows you to refuse visitation (or “parent-time” as it is now called in Utah) if the other parent refuses to take the child to school, then NO. Utah law is very clear that the parent in your position cannot withhold or interfere with parent-time as a means of controlling or punishing the other parent.
But clearly your concerns about school attendance are valid ones. So what can you do about that? In Utah, you could:
file a motion with the court seeking to have the other parent who is failing/refusing to get the child to school held in contempt IF there is a court order already in existence that directs that parent to ensure the child gets to school on time on the mornings the child is with that parent.
If there is no court order already in existence that directs that parent to ensure the child gets to school on time on the mornings the child is with that parent, then you could file a petition with the court seeking to modify the child custody and/or parent-time award(s), alleging that because the other parent is failing/refusing to get the child to school the child custody and/or parent-time award(s) need to be modified to address and remedy this problem.
What you cannot do is take the law into your own hands and withhold or interfere with parent-time in response to the other parent failing to get the child to school.
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Retirement now a potential ground for modifying alimony award
In the 2020 legislative session the Utah State legislature amended the Utah Code to provide that “regardless of whether a party’s retirement is foreseeable, the party’s retirement is a substantial material change in circumstances that is subject to a petition to modify alimony, unless the divorce decree expressly states otherwise.” Previous to the passing of this amendment the law in the state of Utah was that because retirement was a foreseeable event at the time of divorce and because foreseeable events are not a basis for seeking a modification of alimony retirement thus was not a triggering event for modifying or terminating alimony. But with this amendment (found in Utah Code § 30-3-5(10)(b)), that is no longer the case. This does not mean that retirement automatically entitles an alimony payor—or payee—to have the alimony obligation modified up or down, but it does now allow retirement to be raised as a basis for modifying or terminating alimony whereas up until now it could not.
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In my opinion, the answer is: usually, not much. At least at first.
Take it from me: I’ve been a divorce and family lawyer now for 23 years and most (most, not all) courts don’t really do as much as people feel they should do to ensure that there will be hell to pay if child custody orders are violated (especially if the violator is the mother).
Harsh words, I know. Politically incorrect words, yes? And still no less true.
What can the penalties be for violating child custody orders? Generally speaking:
fines
compensatory service (like picking up trash on the interstate, volunteering at soup kitchens, etc.)
jail (only in the most egregious cases, if the court has the will to impose it)
orders that the noncompliant parent submit to counseling and/or take parenting and anger management classes and other such nonsense
Now if one repeatedly and unrepentantly violates custody orders with impunity the court could respond by modifying the custody order, but for that to occur the violations usually have to be highly voluminous and/or egregious.
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If one parent has bedbugs and the children will not sleep at the parents home, does the other parent have to make a motion for full custody? Can the parent without bedbugs be sanctioned for failure to coparent?
I am glad you asked this question because in reading it and thinking about it I finally conceived of a way to express in words the problem that most non-lawyers encounter when asked this type of question.
Your question, and many questions like it, is grounded in a belief that the court will see your case and the issues raised in your case purely from your perspective. You cannot take such a thing for granted. It’s an easy trap to fall into (frankly, we all do), and a trap that causes a lot of people tremendous disillusionment and frustration with the legal system. While I am no raving fan of the modern legal system, it would be unfair to fault the legal system when it confronts issues over which reasonable minds can differ.
Here’s the key:
1) When analyzing a potential legal issue and your likelihood of success on an argument over that issue, don’t assume the court sees the issue as you do; indeed, don’t even presume that the court sees an issue at all.
2) Try seeing the issue as best you can A) from as many different reasonable perspectives as possible and then ask yourself whether your perspective is the most readily understandable and acceptable; and B) from the perspective your judge would most likely see the issue, or claim to see the issue, in the real world.
3) Argue only those issues A) that you believe you have a better than even chance of prevailing upon or B) that you can argue in good faith on the basis of principle, win or lose (meaning: you won’t act shocked or surprised or outraged if you lose an argument over a close issue over which you know reasonable minds can differ, nor will you smugly claim, with the benefit of hindsight, “Oh, our success was never in doubt.”)
OK, let’s conduct this analysis using your bedbugs scenario:
Even if a parent knows, from having witnessed it first-hand, that there are bedbugs at his or her ex-spouse’s house, that does not mean that the court must believe it. If a parent knows that the children refuse to go to the other parent’s house or refuse to sleep there (regardless of the reason), that does not mean that the court will believe it. Why? Because the court does not know what you know. This is why, when you seek relief and orders from courts are required to meet their burdens of proof, so that the court has sufficient factual and legal basis to grant the relief you seek.
And so questions like yours need to be analyzed on at least two levels: 1) Will the court believe your allegations?, and 2) If so, will the court take the actions you wanted to take?
Using your questions as a model:
Bedbugs and the modification of custody or parent-time
If a parent were only to come into court with just a bare, unverifiable claim that there are bedbugs in the other parent’s home, in my mind that would not rise to the level of proof by a preponderance of the evidence, and so if I were the judge, I could not conclude as a matter of fact that the allegation is true. And where an argument/request for sole custody rests on the other parent having bedbugs in his/her house, if I were the judge I would have to rule against that argument/request.
If a parent were to come into court with verification of his/her claim that there are bedbugs in the other parent’s home, that fact alone would not determine that the children must be in the sole custody of the other parent. First, the question the court would have to ask and resolve is something to the effect of:
“Is the presence of bedbugs in the parent’s home a sufficiently compelling reason to deny that parent custody or parent time on that basis alone?”
“Are bedbugs a threat to the health or life of the children?” Or just a nuisance?
“If bedbugs are not a threat to the health or life of the children, can I, as the judge, conclude that having the children exposed to the mere nuisance of potential bedbug bites is still somehow a sufficiently compelling reason to reduce or eliminate the amount of time the children spend with parent whose home is infested with bedbugs?”
If the court were to conclude that the answer to that question is “no,” then the presence of bedbugs alone in the parent’s house would not be enough to win a motion or petition for sole custody.
If the court were to conclude that the answer to that question is “yes” (and it’s not a given that the answer will be “yes”[1]”), then the court could, on that basis alone, modify custody or parent time, IF the court could rationally explain why the mere presence of bedbugs is reason enough to reduce or eliminate the amount of time the children spend in the custody or care of the parent with bedbugs at his/her house.
But “yes” might also lead to an additional question or additional questions, such as: Can the parent with bedbugs at his/her house mitigate the problem so that there’s no need to modify custody or parent time? Is the parent with bedbugs at his/her house willing to take necessary and immediate measures to solve the problem? What if, until the bedbug problem is eliminated, we simply require the parent who has bedbugs at his/her house to exercise custody or parent time at a location other than the parent’s house?” So even if the court finds that bedbugs could be reason to modify custody or parent time that does not mean that the court necessarily must modify custody or parent time in response to the presence of bedbugs.
Will a Parent Be Sanctioned if the Kids Refuse to Spend Time at the Parent’s Home Where There are Bedbugs present?
I will analyze this question by starting with the presumption that the court has determined that there are bedbugs present in the other parent’s home.
The court might then ask, “Is the presence of bedbugs in that parent’s home justification for modifying the custody or parent time orders?” This could lead to:
“Are bedbugs a threat to the health or life of the children?” Or just a nuisance?
“If bedbugs are not a threat to the health or life of the children, can I, as the judge, conclude that having the children exposed to the mere nuisance of potential bedbug bites is still somehow a sufficiently compelling legal reason for the other parent to refuse to comply with the court’s custody and visitation orders as to the other parent?”
If the answer to the previous question is “no”, then the other parent likely will be sanctioned, BUT even then, it’s possible that the court good rule along the lines of something like this: “I do not find that the children’s exposure to bedbugs at this parent’s house constituted a justification for noncompliance with the custody and parent time orders, but I also find that the noncompliant parent was not noncompliant for malicious, self-serving, or bad faith purposes, but truly believed that the bedbugs posed a bigger problem in his/her mind than in the mind of the court. So I’m not going to sanction this parent in this instance because I don’t believe sanctions are appropriate. And I don’t believe sanctions are appropriate because I don’t believe sanctions are needed to motivate this parent to comply with court orders now that I have explained my analysis of the situation. As long as this parent understands that he/she cannot act as a law unto himself/herself, I’m willing to give the noncompliant parent the benefit of the doubt in this instance.”
If the answer to the previous question is “yes”, then the other parent cannot be sanctioned.
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In Utah (where I practice divorce and family law), yes, there are many possible ways to reduce child support. They may not be applicable to every child support payor, but there are ways:
If you can persuade the court that you do not earn and cannot earn in the future the amount of money upon which your current child support obligation is based, then child support can be reduced (that may be cold comfort, however, given that the reason for a reduced child support obligation is your reduced income);
Become disabled. This is kind of a corollary to way #1, in that if you become disabled that matters to the court to the extent your disability renders you unable to earn the amount of money upon which your current child support obligation is based.
If you can persuade the court that the child support payee is now earning (and will likely continue to earn in the future) more money than the amount of money upon which your current child support obligation is based, then child support can be reduced;
Other ways you can get child support reduced:
If custody of the child(ren) changes from the other parent to you. Obviously, you shouldn’t be paying child support to the noncustodial parent;
Material changes in the relative wealth or assets of the parties. If you are obligated to pay child support on the meager $2,400 you make per month, but your ex-wife or ex-husband is pulling down $20,000 take home pay per month, you could likely argue that you need all or most of the $2,400 for your own support in light of the fact that your ex has more than enough money to cover all the children’s financial support needs;
Material changes in the employment potential and ability of a parent to earn (if your ex has, since the child support order was issued, completed medical school or a PhD program or just obtained a Commercial Truck Driver license, etc.);
Material changes in the legal responsibilities of either parent for the support of others (for example: you have to take care of a parent or sibling or spouse or after-born child whose health or medical needs require you to quit or limit your employment for the sake of providing the care).
UPDATE on new Utah Rules of Civil Procedure Rule 109:
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Subject: [UtahStateBarNews] Notice of new effective date for Rule 109 of the Utah Rules of Civil Procedure
The Utah Supreme Court has adopted a new effective date of January 1, 2020 for the following rule. The rule was formerly effective November 1, 2019. The January date will accommodate programming changes necessary to effectuate the rule’s purposes.
URCP109. Injunction in certain domestic relations cases. New. Provides that in certain domestic relations cases, an injunction will enter upon the filing of the case. Its provisions address areas such as disposing of property, disturbing the peace of the other party, committing domestic violence, using the other party’s identification to obtain credit, interfering with telephone or utility service, modifying insurance, and behavior around the minor children. The injunction is binding on the petitioner upon filing the initial petition and on the respondent after the filing of the initial petition and upon receipt of a signed copy of the injunction as entered by the court.
To see approved rule amendments, click on the rule number above, or click on this link: http://www.utcourts.gov/resources/rules/approved/. Then click on the rule number.
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The Utah Rules of Civil Procedure have been amended with a new rule, Rule 109, entitled “Injunction in Certain Domestic Relations Cases”. The rule does not go into effect until November 1, 2019, but when it does, it will affect every Utah divorce case and other kinds of family law cases. Here is the text of the rule with the highlights in red text.
Utah Rules of Civil Procedure Rule 109. Injunction in Certain Domestic Relations Cases
(effective November 1, 2019)
(a) Actions in which a domestic injunction enters. Unless the court orders otherwise, in an action for divorce, annulment, temporary separation, custody, parent time, support, or paternity, the court will enter an injunction when the initial petition is filed. Only the injunction’s applicable provisions will govern the parties to the action.
(b) General provisions.
(b)(1) If the action concerns the division of property then neither party may transfer, encumber, conceal, or dispose of any property of either party without the written consent of the other party or an order of the court, except in the usual course of business or to provide for the necessities of life.
(b)(2) Neither party may, through electronic or other means, disturb the peace of, harass, or intimidate the other party.
(b)(3) Neither party may commit domestic violence or abuse against the other party or a child.
(b)(4) Neither party may use the other party’s name, likeness, image, or identification to obtain credit, open an account for service, or obtain a service.
(b)(5) Neither party may cancel or interfere with telephone, utility, or other services used by the other party.
(b)(6) Neither party may cancel, modify, terminate, change the beneficiary, or allow to lapse for voluntary nonpayment of premiums, any policy of health insurance, homeowner’s or renter’s insurance, automobile insurance, or life insurance without the written consent of the other party or pursuant to further order of the court.
(c) Provisions regarding a minor child. The following provisions apply when a minor child is a subject of the petition.
(c)(1) Neither party may engage in non-routine travel with the child without the written consent of the other party or an order of the court unless the following information has been provided to the other party:
(c)(1)(A) an itinerary of travel dates and destinations;
(c)(1)(B) how to contact the child or traveling party; and
(c)(1)(C) the name and telephone number of an available third person who will know the child’s location.
(c)(2) Neither party may do the following in the presence or hearing of the child:
(c)(2)(A) demean or disparage the other party;
(c)(2)(B) attempt to influence a child’s preference regarding custody or parent time; or
(c)(2)(C) say or do anything that would tend to diminish the love and affection of the child for the other party, or involve the child in the issues of the petition.
(c)(3) Neither party may make parent time arrangements through the child.
(c)(4) When the child is under the party’s care, the party has a duty to use best efforts to prevent third parties from doing what the parties are prohibited from doing under this order or the party must remove the child from those third parties.
(d) When the injunction is binding. The injunction is binding
(d)(1) on the petitioner upon filing the initial petition; and
(d)(2) on the respondent after filing of the initial petition and upon receipt of a copy of the injunction as entered by the court.
(e) When the injunction terminates. The injunction remains in effect until the final decree is entered, the petition is dismissed, the parties otherwise agree in a writing signed by all parties, or further order of the court.
(f) Modifying or dissolving the injunction. A party may move to modify or dissolve the injunction.
(f)(1) Prior to a responsive pleading being filed, the court shall determine a motion to modify or dissolve the injunction as expeditiously as possible. The moving party must serve the nonmoving party at least 48 hours before a hearing.
(f)(2) After a responsive pleading is filed, a motion to modify or to dissolve the injunction is governed by Rule 7 or Rule 101, as applicable.
(g) Separate conflicting order. Any separate order governing the parties or their minor children will control over conflicting provisions of this injunction.
(h) Applicability. This rule applies to all parties other than the Office of Recovery Services.
Utah Family Law, LC | divorceutah.com | 801-466-9277
AMELIA GAYATREE LEFEVRE,
Appellee,
v.
CASEY LEE MACKELPRANG,
Appellant.
Opinion No. 20171006-CA
Filed March 28, 2019
Sixth District Court, Panguitch Department
The Honorable Paul D. Lyman No. 154600028
Van Mackelprang and Julie J. Nelson, Attorneys for Appellant
Douglas L. Neeley, Attorney for Appellee
JUDGE RYAN M. HARRIS authored this Opinion, in which JUDGES MICHELE M. CHRISTIANSEN FORSTER and KATE APPLEBY concurred.
HARRIS, Judge:
¶1 Casey Lee Mackelprang (Father) asked the trial court to modify the governing divorce decree (the Decree) to install him as the primary custodial parent or, at least, change the parenttime schedule to increase the number of nights his daughter (Child) spent at his house. After a trial, the court denied his request, and in addition ordered him to pay the full cost of a custody evaluation. Father now asks us to review the trial court’s conclusions, and we agree with Father that those conclusions were infirm. Accordingly, we vacate the trial court’s order and remand the case for further proceedings.
BACKGROUND
¶2 After nearly six years of marriage, Father and Amelia Gayatree LeFevre (Mother) divorced in August 2014. They had one child—Child—together, who was five years old at the time of the parties’ divorce.
¶3 For the first few years of their marriage, the couple lived in Cedar City, Utah with Child, who had some medical issues and required extra attention. According to Mother, she provided nearly all care for Child during this time period, even though she was taking classes at a university, and even though Father was not employed full-time. She maintained that Father often refused to help with child care, and when she needed someone to care for Child so that she could attend classes, she found it necessary to call upon her sister, her parents, and even a few friends, because Father was unwilling to do so himself. By the time Child was three, Father had never spent a night alone with Child and was not comfortable doing so.
¶4 Mother and Father separated in April 2012. At that point, both Mother and Father left Cedar City to live with family: Mother and Child moved to Boulder, Utah, and Father moved to Kanab, Utah. A few months later, however, in the late summer of 2012, Mother returned to Cedar City to begin work on a master’s degree. Father also soon returned to Cedar City, but the parties lived in separate residences. At that point, while Mother continued to act as Child’s primary caregiver, the parties worked out an informal parent-time arrangement in which Mother would take Child over to see Father on occasion but, because Father was still not entirely comfortable with caring for Child on his own, Mother was often present during these visits. Most of these visits were daytime visits for a few hours, although Father did care for Child overnight on a handful of occasions.
¶5 Mother filed for divorce in August 2012 and, in September 2013, the parties entered into a stipulated settlement agreement that designated Mother as Child’s primary physical custodian. The agreement ordered parent-time for Father every other weekend and every other Wednesday evening, a schedule that (although it did not mention the statute) was similar to the one set forth in Utah Code section 30-3-35. Nearly a year later, in August 2014, the trial court signed the Decree, incorporating the parties’ agreed-upon custody and parent-time arrangement.
¶6 During this period, Father and Mother each lived in Cedar City during the week, but on most weekends Mother traveled to Boulder to visit family and to work. Mother always took Child with her to Boulder for the weekends, even on the alternating weekends on which Father would have otherwise been entitled to parent-time, and at the time Father voiced no objection. Father also was not in the habit of exercising the regular mid-week visits to which he was entitled, instead depending on Mother to bring Child over to his house for many short weekday visits as her class schedule allowed. And Father did not exercise his right to a multi-week summertime visit in 2014, even though the stipulation entitled him to do so.
¶7 After nearly three years in Cedar City, Mother and Child moved back to Boulder in April 2015, and at this point Father began to regularly exercise the weekend parent-time and the multi-week summertime visits to which the Decree entitled him. Although Father did not exercise his mid-week visits due to the distance between Cedar City and Boulder, he began to make significant efforts to travel to Boulder to participate in important events in Child’s life, such as school programs and dance competitions, even when such events did not occur during his weekend. After a while, Father was of the view that things were going so well with his parent-time that he asked Mother if she would agree to increasing the number of overnights he had with Child, but Mother did not agree.
¶8 In November 2015, Father filed a petition to modify the Decree, requesting that the court alter the custody arrangement to designate him, rather than Mother, as the primary physical custodian. In the petition, among other things, Father argued that a modification was warranted because Mother’s move to Boulder in April 2015 constituted a substantial and material change in circumstances because Father was no longer able to see Child as often as he had when Mother was living in Cedar City. Father also argued that Mother was not spending a substantial amount of her parent-time with Child because she was working two jobs that required her to leave Child in the primary care of Child’s maternal grandmother. Mother opposed Father’s petition, and eventually filed a counter-petition requesting that the Decree be modified to remove redundant material, clarify issues, and make minor alterations to the parent-time schedule.
¶9 In November 2016, while the competing petitions were pending, Mother notified Father that she intended to relocate with Child to Las Vegas, Nevada. Mother proposed that the parties continue to follow the parent-time schedule set forth in the Decree until her move, at which point they should adopt the parent-time schedule found in Utah Code section 30-3-37(6). Father opposed Mother’s request, and asked the court to hold a hearing to consider Mother’s proposed move. Father also asked the court to appoint a custody evaluator to assess the parties’ situation, a request Mother opposed on the ground that no such evaluation was necessary. Mother argued, in the alternative, that if the court did appoint an evaluator, it should order Father to pay all costs associated with the evaluation.
¶10 In early February 2017, Mother and Child relocated to Las Vegas. Shortly thereafter, the court appointed a custody evaluator (Evaluator) and ordered Father to front the costs associated with the appointment, but stated that it would make a final allocation of costs at a later date. The court also postponed any hearing on Mother’s relocation to Las Vegas until after the completion of the custody evaluation. Around this same time, in early 2017, in addition to regularly exercising his weekend and summertime parent-time—which he had been doing since April 2015—Father began to travel to Las Vegas once a week to exercise regular mid-week parent-time with Child.
¶11 Over the next few months, Evaluator conducted a number of interviews with Father, Mother, and Child, as well as home studies during which she observed Child. On November 1, 2017, Evaluator issued her report, in which she recommended—with one important qualification—that the status quo should continue, with Mother acting as the primary residential parent and with Father exercising parent-time on alternating weekends and Wednesdays during the school year. The important qualification was that, if Father were to move to Las Vegas so as to be geographically closer to Mother and Child, she would alter her recommendation and urge the court to adopt the alternative parent-time schedule specified in Utah Code section 30-3-35.1 (section 35.1), which would result in Father having the right to five overnights (instead of two) in every two-week period.
¶12 After learning of Evaluator’s recommendations, Father almost immediately moved to Las Vegas.[1] Just a few weeks later, in mid-November 2017, the court held a trial on the competing petitions to modify. Evaluator testified about her report and evaluation, and recommended that, because Father had relocated to Las Vegas, the court should implement a custody and parent-time arrangement based on section 35.1. She opined that adopting section 35.1 would have a positive impact on Child and the proposed schedule would not hurt the bond Child has with Mother, but would strengthen the bond Child has with Father by providing Child an opportunity to develop a structure and routine with him during the additional mid-week and weekend overnights. Evaluator further opined that the proposed schedule would help reduce communication problems the parties had been experiencing under the current schedule because drop-offs during the school year would occur at school. She also offered her observation that Father was a good parent who since April 2015 had made significant efforts to spend quality time with Child, and opined that Father’s parenting actions over the past two-and-a-half years were more relevant than his actions during the first six years of Child’s life.
¶13 Evaluator also recommended that Father’s summertime parent-time should occur in one large block to reduce both the number of transitions between the parents as well as the amount of time Child spends in the car traveling back and forth from Las Vegas to Utah. Finally, in an effort to reduce the frequency of Father’s requests for virtual parent-time, Evaluator recommended that Father’s video or phone chats with Child should be held at scheduled times three days per week, and that the parties’ email communications regarding Child be restricted to a particular day per week to facilitate more predictable and reliable communication.
¶14 At the conclusion of the trial, and after hearing directly from both Father and Mother, the trial court took the matter under advisement. A few days later, the court issued a written ruling on the petitions to modify, making a few changes to the parties’ Decree. Among other alterations, the court ordered that Father’s summertime parent-time be exercised in one large block and that Father exercise virtual parent-time only during three half-hour periods scheduled during the week. The court denied all of Father’s other requests to alter the custody and parent-time schedule, including Father’s request that parent-time during the school year be implemented according to section 35.1.
¶15 On that point, the court determined that the four prerequisites for implementation of the section 35.1 schedule were not met, and made factual findings in support of that conclusion, including the following: that Father “did not participate actively in [Child’s] life until the last couple of years”; that Father’s “plan to accomplish effective communication is to have a designated email answering day per week” and that Father’s “plan . . . does not appear to be adequate”; and that Father “presented no evidence other than his hope” that increased parent-time would be in Child’s best interest. From these findings, the court made legal conclusions that Father “has not adequately been involved in [Child’s] life”; that Father “has failed to present a plan to accomplish effective communication”; and that Father “has failed to present evidence that it will be in [Child’s] best interest to have increased overnight visits.” Because it considered the statutory prerequisites unsatisfied, the trial court declined Father’s invitation to award him additional parent-time under section 35.1.
¶16 The court also ordered Father to pay all costs related to Evaluator’s report. Although it did not provide reasons for its decision, it did note that Father “asked for the child custody evaluation with the hope that somehow it would find in his favor and it did not, so he should pay its entire cost.”
ISSUES AND STANDARDS OF REVIEW
¶17 Father now appeals the trial court’s ruling on his petition to modify, and asks us to review two aspects of that ruling. Father’s main complaint is with the court’s decision not to implement a parent-time arrangement based on section 35.1. We review a trial court’s custody and parent-time determination for abuse of discretion, and review any underlying factual findings for clear error. See Vaughan v. Romander, 2015 UT App 244, ¶¶ 7– 8, 360 P.3d 761. “A finding is clearly erroneous only if the finding is without adequate evidentiary support or induced by an erroneous view of the law.” Hale v. Big H Const., Inc., 2012 UT App 283, ¶ 9, 288 P.3d 1046 (quotation simplified).
¶18 Second, Father argues that the trial court abused its discretion in ordering him to pay the entire cost of the custody evaluation. When reviewing a court’s decision to allocate costs pursuant to Utah Code section 30-3-3, “we use an abuse of discretion standard.” Peterson v. Peterson, 818 P.2d 1305, 1310 (Utah Ct. App. 1991).
ANALYSIS
I
¶19 The main issue presented on appeal is whether the trial court erred by concluding that the statutory prerequisites set forth in Utah Code section 30-3-35.1(2) were not met. We find infirmities in the trial court’s conclusions, and therefore determine that remand is necessary.
¶20 “In all custody determinations, the [trial] court’s primary focus must be on the best interests of the child.” Pingree v. Pingree, 2015 UT App 302, ¶ 7, 365 P.3d 713 (quotation simplified). Our legislature has determined that each divorced parent “is entitled to and responsible for frequent, meaningful, and continuing access with the parent’s child consistent with the child’s best interests.” Utah Code Ann. § 30-3-32(2)(b)(ii) (LexisNexis Supp. 2018). Relevant statutes prescribe a default minimum parent-time schedule “to which the noncustodial parent and the child shall be entitled,” id. § 30-3-35(2), unless either (a) “the court determines that Section 30-3-35.1 should apply” or (b) a parent can establish “that more or less parenttime should be awarded,” id. § 30-3-34(2). Under the default minimum parent-time schedule set forth in section 30-3-35, “the noncustodial parent is entitled to parent-time with the child during one weekday evening and on alternating weekends, which include Friday and Saturday overnights.” Lay v. Lay, 2018 UT App 137, ¶ 6, 427 P.3d 1221. This default statutory schedule affords the noncustodial parent two overnights in a typical twoweek period, and approximately ninety overnights during a typical calendar year (after holiday and summertime parent-time are accounted for).
¶21 As noted above, section 35.1 “provides an alternative statutory parent-time schedule” that—by extending weekend overnights by one night, and affording one weeknight overnight each week—offers the noncustodial parent the opportunity to enjoy five overnights in every two-week period, resulting in approximately 145 overnights in a typical calendar year See id. ¶ 7; see also Utah Code Ann. § 30-3-35.1(1)(a) (stating that the alternative schedule “is 145 overnights”).
¶22 A trial court may implement the alternative section 35.1 schedule only if “the parties agree or the noncustodial parent can demonstrate” the presence of at least four[2] factual circumstances: (a) that “the noncustodial parent has been actively involved in the child’s life”; (b) that either (i) “the parties are able to communicate effectively regarding the child,” or (ii) “the noncustodial parent has a plan to accomplish effective communications regarding the child”; (c) that “the noncustodial parent has the ability to facilitate the increased parent-time”; and (d) that “the increased parent-time would be in the best interest of the child.” Utah Code Ann. § 30-3-35.1(2). If all four of these elements are present, then the trial court may—but is not required to—implement the parent-time schedule set forth in section 35.1. See id. (stating that “the court may consider” the alternative schedule if the required factual elements are present); see also Lay, 2018 UT App 137, ¶ 13 (stating that “the noncustodial parent’s demonstration of the enumerated factors gives the court the discretion to consider the increased parenttime schedule, but there is no language in the statute making the court’s consideration of that schedule—much less its adoption— mandatory”).
¶23 In this case, the trial court determined that three of the four statutory prerequisites were not present, and therefore decided not to alter the parties’ parent-time arrangement to afford Father additional parent-time.[3] Father argues that the trial court’s determination is incorrect, and that all of the necessary prerequisites were in fact present on the facts presented at trial. In the discussion that follows, we examine each of the three remaining statutory prerequisites and, for the reasons set forth, we agree with Father that the trial court’s analysis was infirm.
A
¶24 The first of the three statutory requirements is that “the noncustodial parent has been actively involved in the child’s life.” Utah Code Ann. § 30-3-35.1(2)(a) (LexisNexis Supp. 2018). Father contends that he presented evidence conclusively demonstrating his active involvement in Child’s life. We agree.
¶25 At the outset of the discussion, it is important to note that the trial court did not actually make a finding or a conclusion to the contrary. The court’s specific finding was that Father “did not participate actively in [Child’s] life until the last couple of years,” implying that Father did participate actively in Child’s life during the “couple of years” prior to trial. (Emphasis added.) Indeed, the evidence presented to the court was overwhelming that, starting in approximately April 2015, Father exercised regular weekend and summertime parent-time according to the ordered schedule, and that he made extra effort as necessary to attend Child’s school functions and other celebrations in her life, even when those occurred outside his customary scheduled parent-time.
¶26 From this evidence, however, the trial court concluded that Father “has not adequately been involved in” Child’s life. In our view, this conclusion is not supported by the evidence presented, and is in any event not the conclusion required by the statute. Indeed, the word “adequately” does not appear in the statute, which instead asks the court to determine whether Father has been “actively” involved in Child’s life. See id. As noted above, at least for the thirty months prior to trial, Father was actively involved in Child’s life, as the trial court impliedly found.[4]
¶27 The only sensible explanation for the trial court’s conclusion is that the court was looking primarily at Father’s actions during the first six years of Child’s life, a period in which Father was not nearly as involved in Child’s life as he was during the thirty months leading up to trial. The relevant statute does not indicate whether a court should weigh recent behavior more heavily, and we certainly acknowledge that a parent who—in true “deathbed repentance” fashion—has been active in his child’s life for only a few days or weeks before trial may comfortably be considered to have not been actively involved in his or her child’s life, when that life is examined as a whole. But a parent who has—even in the eyes of his ex-spouse—been actively involved in his daughter’s life for the thirty-month period leading up to trial has clearly been “actively involved” in her life, and any finding or conclusion to the contrary is clearly erroneous and an abuse of discretion.
¶28 Accordingly, we agree with Father that he satisfied the first statutory prerequisite.
B
¶29 Next, the statute requires that Father demonstrate either (i) that “the parties are able to communicate effectively regarding the child,” or (ii) that he “has a plan to accomplish effective communications regarding the child.” Utah Code Ann. § 30-3-35.1(2)(b) (LexisNexis Supp. 2018). The trial court found that “[t]here is little meaningful communication between the parties,” and concluded that “[t]he parties do not communicate effectively.” Father does not challenge these determinations, and thereby concedes that he cannot meet the first statutory alternative. However, Father asserts that he presented a plan to address the parties’ communication issues, and argues that he can therefore meet the second statutory alternative. We agree.
¶30 The relevant statute requires only that Father present a plan for improved communication to the court; it does not require that Father’s plan be foolproof or even that Father’s plan—or any part of it—be adopted by the court. The statutory language requires only that the parent present a “plan to accomplish effective communication,” see id. § 30-3-35.1(2)(b), and Father did so here.
¶31 At trial, Father adopted and advocated for the communication plan recommended by Evaluator, which included several features designed to address the communication problems that the parties were experiencing. Among those were (a) limiting email communication between the parties to a “designated email day” on which both parents would be available to electronically express and respond to concerns regarding Child; (b) limiting Father’s virtual parenttime to three designated half-hour periods scheduled throughout the week, thereby limiting any ad hoc demands Father might make to speak with Child; and (c) maximizing the number of pickups and drop-offs that would occur at Child’s school rather than at Mother’s residence, thereby reducing the number of times Mother and Father saw each other.
¶32 The trial court ended up adopting one of these three recommendations in its ruling, in that it limited Father’s virtual parent-time to three scheduled half-hour periods each week. The court did not adopt the other two parts of this plan, perhaps in part because Mother expressed dislike for the “designated email day” idea, but the fact that the court declined to adopt Father’s plan in total does not mean that he did not have one. Indeed, the trial court itself referred to “[Father’s] plan” in its findings, later judging that plan to be inadequate. But an inadequate plan is still a plan, and the statute imposes no requirement that the plan be found by the court to be adequate. See id.
¶33 Under these circumstances, the trial court abused its discretion by concluding that Father “failed to present a plan to accomplish effective communication.” Father presented a plan for improved communication to the trial court, and thereby satisfied the second statutory prerequisite.
C
¶34 Finally, the statute requires that implementation of the alternative parent-time schedule would be “in the best interest of the child.” Utah Code Ann. § 30-3-35.1(2)(d) (LexisNexis Supp. 2018). Ordinarily, we afford a high degree of deference to a trial court’s “best interest” determination. See Vaughan v. Romander, 2015 UT App 244, ¶ 8, 360 P.3d 761 (stating that a trial court “has the discretion to establish parent-time in the best interests of the children,” and that a trial court’s “parent-time order” is reviewed for abuse of discretion (quotation simplified)). But here, the trial court did not engage in a traditional “best interest” analysis by weighing the evidence presented by each side and coming to a decision. Instead, the trial court stated flatly that Father had “presented no evidence other than his hope” that increased parent-time would benefit Child, and concluded that Father “failed to present evidence that it will be in [Child’s] best interest to have increased overnight visits.”
¶35 These statements are simply incorrect. Father presented quite a bit of evidence supporting his view that increased parenttime would be in Child’s best interest. Most significantly, Father presented the expert testimony of Evaluator, who offered her reasoned professional opinion that the best thing for Child— now that Father had relocated to Las Vegas and was closer to Mother and Child—would be for the court to implement the alternative parent-time schedule set forth in section 35.1. In addition, Father offered his own testimony along those same lines, and even cajoled Mother into acknowledging that Father was “a good father” and that she was in favor of Father and Child spending more time together (with the proviso that she preferred that the extra parent-time take place in the summertime, to cut down on the number of exchanges during the school year).
¶36 The trial court was certainly free to decline to credit Father’s evidence, and to give it less weight than Mother’s evidence.[5] Had it done so here, and articulated supported reasons for its decision, we undoubtedly would have affirmed that determination. But a trial court is not free to completely ignore a litigant’s evidence by making a “finding” that there is no such evidence when in fact there is.
¶37 Under these unique circumstances, we are not yet able to determine whether Father can (or cannot) satisfy the fourth statutory prerequisite. But the trial court’s stated reasons for rejecting Father’s position are unsupported, and are clearly erroneous and an abuse of discretion. We therefore must remand the case for further proceedings on this point, and specifically for the trial court to consider all of the evidence presented and to make a determination as to whether increased parent-time as per section 35.1 would be in Child’s best interest. Because all of the other prerequisites are met, if the trial court finds, on remand, that the “best interest” prerequisite is also met, the trial court will then be permitted to exercise its discretion, if it so chooses, to implement the alternative parent-time schedule. See Utah Code Ann. § 30-3-35.1(2) (stating that, if the statutory prerequisites are met, the court “may consider” the increased parent-time schedule); see also Lay v. Lay, 2018 UT App 137, ¶ 13, 427 P.3d 1221. (stating that, even where all of the statutory prerequisites are met, a trial court is not required to implement the alternative schedule, but may do so in its discretion).
II
¶38 The second issue Father raises on appeal is whether the trial court abused its discretion in ordering him to pay the entire cost of Evaluator’s report. In a case like this one, in which one party brings an action to establish an order of custody or parenttime, the trial court is statutorily authorized to make an award of costs. See Utah Code Ann. § 30-3-3(1) (LexisNexis 2013) (stating that “in any action to establish an order of custody [or] parenttime, . . . the court may order a party to pay the costs, . . . including expert witness fees, of the other party to enable the other party to prosecute or defend the action”). We have previously recognized that the relevant statute “is worded so as to afford divorce litigants a broader award of reimbursement, if need be, for the expenses of litigation, than those reimbursements authorized in other civil cases” in which costs are allocated according to who prevailed. Peterson v. Peterson, 818 P.2d 1305, 1310 (Utah Ct. App. 1991) (quotation simplified).[6] This rule is particularly appropriate in family law cases where many of the costs, including the cost of custody evaluations, relate to the best interests of the child and enable the court to make a reasoned determination on these important issues. See id.
¶39 While section 30-3-3(1) “empowers a court to use its sound discretion in determining whether to award costs based on need and ability to pay,” id., “the award or denial of such fees must be based on evidence of the financial need of the receiving spouse, the ability of the other spouse to pay, and the reasonableness of the requested fees,” Wilde v. Wilde, 969 P.2d 438, 444 (Utah Ct. App. 1998) (quotation simplified). “Failure to consider these factors is grounds for reversal on the fee issue.” Id.
¶40 Here, the trial court ordered each party to pay their own attorney fees and costs, but ordered Father to pay the entire cost of the custody evaluation. However, there is no indication in the court’s order that it considered the factors identified in Wilde, see id., including the parties’ financial ability to pay; indeed, the court gave no reasons at all for its decision to require Father to pay the entire cost of Evaluator’s report, other than to note that Father “asked for the child custody evaluation with the hope that somehow it would find in his favor and it did not, so he should pay its entire cost.”[7]
¶41 This conclusion is both inaccurate and contrary to the governing statute. Although Evaluator did not recommend that primary physical custody be changed from Mother to Father, Evaluator did recommend that Father be awarded additional parent-time if he moved to Las Vegas, which he did prior to trial. Accordingly, Evaluator’s recommendation at trial was that a parent-time schedule in accordance with section 35.1 should be implemented, which recommendation was in line with Father’s ultimate request at trial. In addition, the court’s conclusion that Father should pay the entire cost of the custody evaluation because the evaluation did not “find in his favor” is inconsistent with a proper subsection (1) analysis. As discussed above, while subsection (1) gives the trial court discretion in determining whether to award the costs of expert witness fees, an award of such fees must be based upon the parties’ ability to pay and the reasonableness of the fees, and not upon which party ultimately prevails. See Utah Code Ann. § 30-3-3(1); Wilde, 969 P.2d at 444. But instead of applying these factors, see Wilde, 969 P.2d at 444, the trial court appears to have erroneously allocated the cost of the custody evaluation by applying the “substantially prevailed” standard found in subsection (2), which is applicable only in actions to enforce—but not to establish—custody or parent-time arrangements, see Utah Code Ann. § 30-3-3(2).
¶42 Here, there is no indication that the trial court considered the appropriate factors. The absence of any such findings prevents a meaningful review of the trial court’s ruling, and we therefore remand the issue for further analysis. See Wilde, 969 P.2d at 444 (remanding the issue of fees and costs for reconsideration in light of the trial court’s failure to consider the needs of the parties and their ability to pay).
CONCLUSION
¶43 The trial court incorrectly—and prematurely—concluded that the statutory prerequisites to considering the section 35.1 parent-time schedule were not met in this case. The first three statutory prerequisites were in fact met, and the trial court’s ruling to the contrary was clearly erroneous. Also, the court incorrectly found that Father had submitted “no evidence” in his favor with regard to the fourth prerequisite. In addition, the trial court’s decision to order Father to pay all costs associated with Evaluator’s report appears to have been grounded in an inaccurate factual assumption as well as made pursuant to the incorrect statutory subsection. The trial court’s ruling with regard to parent-time and costs is hereby vacated, and this matter is remanded for further proceedings consistent with this opinion.
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[1] Neither party contests the trial court’s continuing exercise of jurisdiction over this case, even after both parties relocated to Nevada. See Utah Code Ann. §§ 78B-13-201(1), 202, 207 (LexisNexis 2018); see also In re S.W., 2017 UT 37, ¶ 10, 424 P.3d 7 (noting that a court that originally has exclusive and continuing jurisdiction over a child custody matter may dismiss a case on jurisdictional grounds if it finds, after certain criteria are met, that it is “an inconvenient forum,” but may do so “only once a child custody proceeding has been commenced in another state” (quotation simplified)). Even if we were to assume that the statutory criteria are met here given both parents’ relocation, see Utah Code Ann. § 78B-13-202(1)(b), the trial court made no finding that it was an inconvenient forum, and there is no indication, on the record before us, that any child custody proceeding involving these parties has been initiated in Nevada.
[2] The statutory list of elements is not intended to be exhaustive. Indeed, the statute itself proclaims that the court may take into account “any other factor the court considers relevant.” Utah Code Ann. § 30-3-35.1(2)(e) (LexisNexis Supp. 2018).
[3] All parties, as well as the trial court, agreed that Father has the ability to facilitate the increased parent-time, and that therefore the third statutory prerequisite is satisfied. Seeid. § 30-335.1(2)(c).
[4] Subsection (3) of section 35.1 provides factors that courts “shall consider” in determining whether a parent has been actively involved in a child’s life. See id. § 30-3-35.1(3). Those factors include whether the parent has “demonstrated responsibility in caring for the child”; whether the parent has “involvement in day care”; whether the parent has a “presence or volunteer efforts in the child’s school and at extracurricular activities”; whether the parent assists the child with homework, and whether the parent is involved in “preparation of meals, bath time, and bedtime for the child”; and whether the parent has a strong bond with the child. Id. In this case, the trial court’s findings reveal no effort to apply these factors. In any event, as noted, the evidence clearly supports the conclusion that these factors weigh in favor of Father, at least for the thirty-month period prior to trial: Father had a strong bond with Child, demonstrated responsibility for Child’s care, and had a presence at Child’s extracurricular and school activities.
[5] But if a trial court declines to adopt the recommendation of a custody evaluator, “the court is expected to articulate some reason for rejecting that recommendation.” Zavala v. Zavala, 2016 UT App 6, ¶ 44, 366 P.3d 422 (quotation simplified).
[6] This standard also differs from the standard for awarding costs and fees in actions brought “to enforce” an alreadyestablished order in a domestic case. See Utah Code Ann. § 30-3-3(2) (LexisNexis 2013). In enforcement cases, the standard is similar to the one ordinarily used in civil cases: courts are authorized to award fees to “the party [that] substantially prevailed upon the claim or defense.” Id. In such cases, a trial court “may disregard the financial need of the moving party” because awards under this subsection “serve no equalizing function but allow the moving party to collect fees unnecessarily incurred due to the other party’s recalcitrance.” Connell v. Connell, 2010 UT App 139, ¶¶ 28, 30, 233 P.3d 836 (quotation simplified). Thus, the “guiding factor” when awarding costs under subsection (2) is “whether the party seeking an award of fees substantially prevailed on the claim [or defense].” Id. ¶ 28.
[7] We do not mean to suggest that a court, when deciding how to allocate the costs of a custody evaluation, is forbidden from taking into account the identity of the party who asked for the evaluator to be appointed. In many cases, potentially including this one, that fact might be relevant to any determination about whether the costs are “reasonable.” SeeWilde v. Wilde, 969 P.2d 438, 444 (Utah Ct. App. 1998). In appropriate cases, a court may even condition the grant of a motion to appoint a custody evaluator upon the movant paying the entire cost of the evaluation. In this case, however, that does not appear to be what the trial court did.